"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lurker

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you see a group of guys on the street or a guy, a woman passess by and he whistles or they all whistle and turn thier heads fuelling this womans ego more and more making her feel like the bomb.im totally against boosting a random womans ego. weather its for fun or not. i think guys who whistle and stop girls on streets are afc's and the women who answer them are ho's. it just dosnt make sense to me. id rather chat a woman i alone has made eye-contact with than chasing after her whistling on the streets. it disgusting. because
1. the women get so high and mighty.
2. the men loss thier powers as men and thier pride.

dosnt it piss you off when you and your friends are chatting a girl passess by and your friends all get queit and tongue tied? they stop the convo and look at the girls? i know we are all hetero's but what's the point off looking at a woman you aint gonna approach or screw? eyecandy? wahts the point of it anyway. if i aint gonna screw a girl or i know i aint gonna approach a girl if she's hot or not. i dont bother looking at her. i make sure i dont because you looking at a ass you aint gonna get.
.i think guy's who do this are all af'cs. screw you all. women sometimes do the same thing. but not as much as you afc's out there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tr0ublemaker

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no i'm not in high school anymore

but ya i understand where you're coming from
 

chancer

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I wouldn't call them AFC's, because for one, while our friends suddenly stop the convo in an elevator when a hotty comes in, some dude is atleast putting in some kind of effort. I have a friend who doesn't whistle (for the most part), but will say and pretty bold **** to a girl on the street. They turn and smile like 75% of the time. They want to feel sexy. Weather in a car on on foot, he's stoped a few and talked to them. I respect that because he the balls to atleast say what he wants and approach. Women want a man who's not afraid of them.

Whistling is lame. Women do get high and mighty, or just annoyed. But if you say something to them that might have the same effect with confidence, it's a different story.

But it does bother me when a friend goes mute in the elevator. I try continuing the convo and get no response. It's like you cant break their concentration, lol. Although lately, i've grabbed my balls in a 1v1 situation and talked to girls. It's gotten to the point where I don't care who else comes in or who else is listening.
 

skeeloo

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**** i know dude. its worse when they go silent. i try to up the convo and they go numb. even to girls who are just 7's. it vexes me cuz. i got friends who even dont laugh when a girl passess by. they adjust thier clothes and stand stiff looking and drooling. i was playing a psp with a friend in a train a group of girls came on and he stopped playing and hide it. i was pissed of with him and schooled him on being confident and live his live or else he'd spend the rest of his life trying to please people.

the whistling thing is lame. i do agree why boost any womans ego? the only womans ego i would boost is one that is really shy.

these Afc's make women think we are all the same at first sight.

but there are some guys i have seen that really dont give a ****. the stunner walks bye they dont even care to look. i watch these guys and say hell yeah i wana be like that.1. but either they are gay(which i dont wana be lol) or 2.they got so much ass anytime, or 3.they know women inside out and arnt phased and couldnt give a phuck. im working on getting to number three. it time men act up. if you see a good looking guy for example some women can hide thier feelings so much you wouldnt even know they are attracted to these guys. they check men out very quickly and sly.
 
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