"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you agree these are serious red flags

soxfan52

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She is 44 with a 7 yr old kid.
She dyes parts of her hair pink
She has 3 dogs all of whom she dresses up
She has a pic of the ex husband and her kid in her bedroom
Her mom is married 4 times
Her dad split when she was 8 and hasnt seen or heard from since
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Strelok

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Naaa seems fine to me,make sure to game her the proper way before someone else will,women like that are in demand,I wonder why such a catch is still single anyway.
If you're lucky enough it comes out she's a feminist too and you will have the privilege to share the house duties,not all women allow you that.
 

Die Hard

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"Run, Forrest! Run!"
 

Atom Smasher

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Listen, Mr.... If you don't game her, I will!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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seagull

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Is the Pope Catholic?
Do bears **** in the woods?
Does 1 + 1 = 2?
 
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