"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do women truly ****easily if you push the right buttons?

AlmostThere!

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I've got a new thing going which is not viewing porn images and videos but reading true sex stories posted by women. Some of these stories are so wild I can't imagine it being real.

* co-workers ****ing at the office, restaurants...
* chicks ****ing a total stranger in a club bathroom
* a girl ****ed her boyfriend on the couch under some sheets with her parents in the room
* multiple chicks ****ing more than one guy
* chicks giving *******s and handjobs in public places
* some women ****ed apartment maintenance men
* a lot of older chicks ****ing younger guys (like their kids best friend or the paper boy)

These stories seem incredible because most of these encounters didn't happen via a long courtship. All these stories were like "my sisters friend looked good in the muscle shirt so I made sure to brush my ass against his **** while at dinner and later that night we ****ed for 5 hours". She never met this guy so where was the ASD?

Does this **** only happen the top 1% of hot males? Have any of you ever went to your friends house, met his sister and y'all ****ed on the first day of meeting? What was said? How did you know you could advance into sex so quickly with her?

I mean it seems like chicks will **** a guy rather quickly but the man has to be very aware of the signals. How can I put myself into these situations so I can experience this ****? In all of these stories, the females were the ones initiating the sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stéphane

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I've done this before, the trick is too isolate the girl properly kino escalate, and kiss close.
 

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I can't be the only one on here who has had the ladies initiate sex within seconds of meeting. I thought every guy got a few of those in his lifetime.
 

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Never got that, but I do hear about it happening. I know a couple of guys that this happens to a lot, but one of them can't keep the girls coming back again (the girls quickly discover he's a loser and they only slept with him while drunk).

But I'm sure it happens, just to only the top percentage of guys.
 

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Kal0051 said:
Never got that, but I do hear about it happening. I know a couple of guys that this happens to a lot, but one of them can't keep the girls coming back again (the girls quickly discover he's a loser and they only slept with him while drunk).

But I'm sure it happens, just to only the top percentage of guys.
Wow, so I am a top percentage guy? I am liking this. You know I turned down two threesomes over the summer. Oddest crap I know of. Something about bringing another girl into bed is just wrong. One girl said her friend just wanted to watch. That was even stranger. Then when I told her nope she said that her friend might be willing to join in if she could only touch me. Spooked the hell out of me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BigJimbo said:
I can't be the only one on here who has had the ladies initiate sex within seconds of meeting. I thought every guy got a few of those in his lifetime.
How attractive are you? What kind of environment are these girls in?
 

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BigJimbo said:
Wow, so I am a top percentage guy? I am liking this. You know I turned down two threesomes over the summer. Oddest crap I know of. Something about bringing another girl into bed is just wrong. One girl said her friend just wanted to watch. That was even stranger. Then when I told her nope she said that her friend might be willing to join in if she could only touch me. Spooked the hell out of me.
or your just lucky. Being in the right place at the right time helps. The guys that get it consistently and get returns are the guys in the above average range. That's just my opinion. Keep in mind I'm a virgin but I've seen and heard a lot.
 

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Under the right circumstances, you can get anyone to do anything.
 

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Does this **** only happen the top 1% of hot males?
I think in the instances that you described, it's more about the quality of the females than the quality of the males.
 

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A lot of really good guys pull to club bathrooms relatively often.

Most of the other stuff is just a product of being in the right situation, with the right girl at the right time, and having enough game to pull it off. Remember this stuff is like 1 in 1000, or less.

And please, stop putting so much emphasis on looks so you can give yourself an excuse to not be any good at this. Looks obviously play a role, but that doesn't mean average guys can't pull hot girls consistently or get a hot girlfriend.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This stuff does not happen among the general majority of the population as a whole.

However, in certain groups and at the right time, it does occur. The key is obviously the woman involved and also the environment at hand.

It is a fact that in these cases, a smaller minority of women are doing alot of this and probably an even smaller minority of men are involved.

Alot of these sound kind of sensational. Stuff from porn stories or some fantasy someone thought up.
 

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It's all about being a sexual being and a person who makes those opportunities...

It doesn't really have much to do with the woman because with the right guy under the right circumstances they'll do it. Most of the chicks I've had these type of situations with, have never even experienced such a thing BUT it's so much fun and so much tension that it's addictive.

It takes a special guy who doesn't judge women. I've had chicks sit on there girl friend's lap and just makeout with them. Then I move in making out with the same girl right infront of them. IT OCCURS because it's just fun for me and no big deal. (Which is why many women do sh!t like that)

This really says nothing about the chicks quality of being. All women are very sexual BUT suppress it. I used to go a bit overboard with this dynamic because I'd just walk around making out with chick after chick until my throat would bother me. My friend used to ask how it was possible and my answer "It means nothing to me, it's just fun". That same day a chick pulled me aside asking if we can makeout for fun.

You gotta change your reality and gain a bit experience so it seems possible...

Where I'm at now as a person...In the future it will be more likely that I'll end up having a 5some than having a coffee with a chick 1 on 1.
 
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