"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do women think with their vaginas?

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Women claim men think with their penises but if you have to make their taco tingle or get it wet on first approach, aren't they thinking with their vaginas?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Men think with their minds, women think with their hearts.
 

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Personally I still don't know. All I know is we are in a what appears to be a misandrist society.
I've seen utter grotesque objectifying and dignity-stripping of men in the media and in public, ironic that wolf-whistling at women still gets people upset. So all this would lead me to suppose they do, or they have a weird sense of humour going by how they treat the less attractive.

The same women then dress and look a certain way, accusing MEN of being the perverts (so long as they are unattractive), rather than take some responsibility for purposefully creating a chemical reaction in men. F**K THIS SHVT!!!!
 

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sambwoy said:
Personally I still don't know. All I know is we are in a what appears to be a misandrist society.
I've seen utter grotesque objectifying and dignity-stripping of men in the media and in public, ironic that wolf-whistling at women still gets people upset. So all this would lead me to suppose they do, or they have a weird sense of humour going by how they treat the less attractive.

The same women then dress and look a certain way, accusing MEN of being the perverts (so long as they are unattractive), rather than take some responsibility for purposefully creating a chemical reaction in men. F**K THIS SHVT!!!!
That escalated quickly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Its the hormone testosterone that makes us tick. Lose that and u won't be "thinking with ur duck"

women have estrogen and I think that makes their biological clock tick.

as far as looking for hookups during ur day to day...both genders vary through the spectrum. But u gotta remember, girls were taught to be demure and shyt. Boys were taught by their older bros that hooking up is the shyt. And less mature people do just that but with much less class or tact.

most girls I've been with practically tore my clothes off and begged me to let her have me. So to me they are just as nasty as guys. They just know how to lie better. Its because when I'm with my date and I get aroused, its easy to tell...not so much with females.
 

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I'm not hating on women. I just think it's important to call a spade a spade. When you see a woman with a guy and you wonder why she picked him, the answer is simple. He makes her taco tingle*.

*Status is more for ego. Money is great to have for lifestyle. But physical attributes like looks, height, build, hair, skin tone, etc. are what truly make the taco tingle or not.
 

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^ while I agree with the above, I think only the more aesthetically pleasing would agree to it.

like if u were born royalty. .you would have status coming out your ears and then your world would be uniquely unfair...or fair..
 

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SgtSplacker said:
Men think with their minds, women think with their hearts.
Lets be real...we think with our little mind a lot of the time ;)

Regarding the OP...hmm, Id say women think with their vaginas a lot when they are younger. But still in conjunction with their heart. As they get older the heart has more say than the hormones.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do women think with their vaginas?
Pretty much. Have a look at their politics, blogs, current news talking points and social trends.

Look at the end game of all this free birth control, "rape culture", the Bergs and Steins continually telling women to ride the carousel, obamacare, courageous single mothers, harassment laws etc etc.

If you strip away all the bull**** the common denominator always = How can we make it easier for women to phuck the 10 percenters whilst excluding the betas/omegas but still having the betas/omegas pick up the tab.

In other words it always comes down to " alpha fux/beta bux"

Men however as a general rule tend to put the tribe before the tingles. Not so much anymore obviously as we are all socially/culturally atomized and instinctively know the West as it once was is not far off from imploding in on itself but you get my point.

Men = Tribe before tang.
Women = Tingles before tribe.

Accountability and long term planning are generally male traits.
 

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Any simple yes or no answer would just be a generalization.

There are different types of women, as are different types of men.
 

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Mike32ct said:
*Status is more for ego. Money is great to have for lifestyle. But physical attributes like looks, height, build, hair, skin tone, etc. are what truly make the taco tingle or not.
I'm going to respond to this because as usual, Mike, you're all hung up on looks. Hey, looks are important, yes. Women aren't going to fantasize about the fat guy with the plumber's crack. But you're forgetting that the brain is the most important sex organ.
 

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That escalated quickly.
Apologies, but by god though, isn't it annoying?

Growing up I must have seen a dozen TV shows and films moralizing about the objectification of women, and taking on that notion cannot be good for a man's mental health because real life and more media has no-one questioning the objectifying of men. They might as well be the same but slightly tweaked scripts passed between productions.

Many girls on a group basis can't relate to what its like to get up in the morning with feelings of no self-worth as an individual. Is it the segregation of the genders in schools that make their experiences growing up different?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko said:
I'm going to respond to this because as usual, Mike, you're all hung up on looks. Hey, looks are important, yes. Women aren't going to fantasize about the fat guy with the plumber's crack. But you're forgetting that the brain is the most important sex organ.
I do get hung up on the looks issue. I don't deny that :).

It's not that other things don't matter, it's that, in my experience, looks can often put a ceiling on what you can do game-wise with a chick.

You can be cool or funny or entertaining or a good dancer or whatever, but without passing the looks test, it's just free entertainment to the girl if she even LETS you interact with her. No matter how much "game" you try to use, you are stuck at a door that won't open if you aren't her looks type.

No doubt that the mind is the biggest sexual organ. I agree with that. I am very good at sexy talk or chat. When I was younger, a phone sex girl (that I paid because I was bored/lonely) gave me her REAL personal number. She told me to call her when she's not working because I'm "better at phone fun" than she was. I've had a few other women report multiple orgasms over the phone.

But I'm unable to use this skillset (which would be sexting in today's world) because you have to pass the looks test BEFORE she would let you write naughty texts to further turn her on.

It's the same with dancing. I'm not great, but probably one of the better ones when I go out. But I still need the looks so that she would ALLOW me to dance with her. (I'm better with a partner than solo. I also mean at the bar, not the studio where everyone dances with you out of courtesy.)

Anyway, I'm not whining. I just want to say that "game-related" skills cannot be used on women until AFTER you pass her looks test.
 
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I've read on here that most women logic, ethics and morals go out the window once she desires you. Once you have her to that level beyond attraction, she pretty much calls all the shots. It's a sitting fvck. My plate can't stop b!tching about the insecure BF back in her home country. Wingman by hindsight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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