"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do women tell you that other guys hit on them?
- Thread starter verysuave
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Five To One
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Or I say "get over yourself" in a half joking way so I dont sound like a complete *sshole.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
"so you're one of those girls.. it'll never work out between us."verysuave said:
Misinterpret everything as she is hitting on you:
"are you trying to make me jealous, i'm not that easy."
WalkingStick
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AlexParadox
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"welcome to my world
"or
"Baby, now you know how i live everyday"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That is already given, what needs to be figured out as to why they want you to know that.WalkingStick said:
Its all about the context and your position when she tells you this.
If you are one of her bestest friends (which means she doesn't find you attractive and you have zero chance of getting into her pants) she will tell you this because she sees you as one of the girls and there is nothing better for one chick telling another how much she is wanted. If she is a cruel one then she might be telling you this to make you squirm because she knows you want her and it gives her some sick pleasure to see you feeling anxious and worried (yes some women are like that).
However if you are not her close friend, it might mean something different. She might be telling you this because she likes you and this is a womense translation for: "hey listen, I am wanted by other guys so you better ask me out before its too late". Essentially she is trying to market herself to you.