"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do women seem emboldened by having a boyfriend next to them?

Eph

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So, last night me, one of my closest friends, and a third guy we both know pretty well were at school preparing for the homecoming game. It was another hour or so until the game started so we were fvcking around in the halls. Me and my friend were talking as this couple were walking by, and my friends swears pretty loud (he doesn't know how to speak quietly).

Then he does it again. The second time, the girl that was walking by with her boyfriend turns around, looks at him and tells him to stop cussing. I had to laugh. After they left, we started talking about it, and he was telling me about how he wanted to do it some more to piss her off. He really wanted to say something to her, but held back. I have a feeling she wouldn't have said anything if her boyfriend wasn't right there and told him that. I always get the feeling women start feeling bold when they've got someone to protect them if they say or do something they shouldn't. Anyone else get this feeling before?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No. Quite the contrary. A western woman is more likely to say something when she doesn't have a mam next to her. That way, if she is attacked, she can easily play the victim role.
 

SeymourCake

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You should've stuck the middle finger to her and told her to keep walking. Who is she, as a stranger tell others what to do? Her boyfriend probably bust all kinds of nuts on her face and she wants to act like she has virgin ears? F*ck that.
 
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