"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do women lose interest in you if

warrior1

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you don't show interest in them assuming they are attracted to you? I heard most women do lose interest and the only ones who don't lose interest are the ones who are crazy about you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you let things drift on long enough without making a move, they will most likely lose interest. They're probably not just gonna sit around and obsess over you forever if you don't ever act. But it's ok to move slowly and suavely. Read the Bible, n00b, and all your questions will be answered.
 
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They wont lose interest unless another dude makes his move - timing is of the essence!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jurassic Park sheets? Hmm...random insult with the intention of a self-esteem boost for the attacker, I suppose? Anyway...

If you have shown her your worth (i.e. had a good time with her at least once), and then pull back/become aloof. If she initially had/still has interest, she should chase. Tease her, make her work, ration your attention, play hard-to-get, be C&F...all these things will make you irresistible to her. But no matter what "tactic" you're currently using on her (some form of push or some form of pull), always try to have fun!

She'll notice. ;)
 

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Stormwatch13 said:
they lose interest when they see your jurassic park sheets. You prick.

wtf? Troll much?
 

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Well if they had interest in you but then lost it, is there any chance they may still have even some slight interest in you later on assuming they got a b/f? I know there are some woman who has interest in other guys but got someone else because they felt the other guy wasn't interested in them so they moved on.

Thoughts?
 
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