"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Do Women look at you just for a rise?

Smok1nAce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2013
Messages
724
Reaction score
695
Ive been told im a fairly attractive guy, I have women looking at me constantly at work, younger (22) older (40's, 50's), and women in long term relationships and some who are married. Do I approach or do these women just want to get a reaction out of me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Casillas

Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2015
Messages
73
Reaction score
24
Just do it, when you get older you will regret not doing situations like this. But if I were you I will talk only to the divorced ones.
 

Smok1nAce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2013
Messages
724
Reaction score
695
yannick43 said:
Haha that is really cool i used to get that a lot too when younger, even now i still get it some times.
???
 

foreverAFC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 31, 2012
Messages
1,202
Reaction score
137
I get lots of looks and iois from women at work, they are all married and stuck in long term relationships with chumps, they are all just looking for ego boosts, out of he hundreds of women I've come across at work who showed me interest only one of them was single and I blew her off cause I thought she probobly had a bf or husband too, so proceed with caution
 

Scars

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
2,127
Reaction score
1,003
Age
36
Location
Phoenix
Like I always say.. women are emotional creatures.. and most likely, they are just fishing for a compliment and want you to tell them they're beautiful or whatever, probably because they don't hear it enough at home. That's all it is really. That's not to say that you can't seduce her and fvck a married women, of course you can. Most women who do this are generally insecure from the beginning, and having relationship problems, all it takes is getting her hot and heated and for her to "make a mistake in the heat of the moment", and you smash. Should you mess with taken women? Personally, I think it's wrong, but it's all up to your moral code.

To put it simply.. yes, all these women are just looking for compliments and to feel a certain way, especially from "attractive guys". Does that mean you should persue? Not always, that's really up to you.

Don't **** where you eat.

That is all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top