"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do women like it?

ApocalypseCow2

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I'm curious about something:

Has anyone here ever had a woman make a comment to you about getting her phone number in mall/library/bookstore/etc...? Like "Wow, I can't believe there are guys who have the guts to talk to a woman they don't know outside of a club" or something like that?

I would think most girls fantasize about having the right guy come talk to her in a setting like that. Basically, I think some girls are embarrassed if they go online to get dates. But do they feel the opposite way when getting a date in a store? I think it would be exciting for them (assuming you make a good impression, of course).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Climax

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Some girls will love it, some girls will hate it, some girls will see it as wierd, but still like it, some girls wont care and just give u her number..... This is something that u cant say that there is ONE "rule" for all girls on this one. But overall, girls like it when a guy approaches them pretty much ANYWHERE, only the very few % of girls will actually NOT like it. So if u are in the situation where u want to appraoch in a library or whatever, then go for it.


Laterz...
 

yunghova35

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Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
I'm curious about something:

Has anyone here ever had a woman make a comment to you about getting her phone number in mall/library/bookstore/etc...? Like "Wow, I can't believe there are guys who have the guts to talk to a woman they don't know outside of a club" or something like that?

I would think most girls fantasize about having the right guy come talk to her in a setting like that. Basically, I think some girls are embarrassed if they go online to get dates. But do they feel the opposite way when getting a date in a store? I think it would be exciting for them (assuming you make a good impression, of course).
The only time a girl doesnt like being approached is IF THE GUY ACTS LIKE A JERK WITH NO MANNERS.

so if you use what you've learned here your fine.
 

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Re: Re: Do women like it?

Originally posted by yunghova35
The only time a girl doesnt like being approached is IF THE GUY ACTS LIKE A JERK WITH NO MANNERS.

so if you use what you've learned here your fine.
Spot on with this one hear-great post.
 

MindOverMatter

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I meet a lot of girls via that method, but most of my female friends, or girls who I meet through my friends HATE it when someone tries to pick them up in public via cold approaching.

Like my friend was telling me just a few days ago about some guy that tried to get her # on the bus, saying how she was super creeped out and gave him a fake #. I was like "why were u creeped out, was he ugly or something?". she was like no he was cute, but it was just creepy approaching me like that out of the blue. I was thinkin "poor guy was just sarging, now he's gonna call a fake # haha"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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squirrels

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Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
(assuming you make a good impression, of course).
If a woman is interested in talking to you again, for whatever reason, she will give up the number, REGARDLESS of the setting.

There is no, "I'm so glad a guy finally had the balls to approach me in public."

There is only one of these two:

-"I'm so glad THIS PARTICULAR guy approached me in public"

OR

-"I wish THIS PARTICULAR guy HADN'T approached me in public."

It's not about body count. It's about YOU.

Stop wondering if women want to be approached and start considering whether women want YOU to approach them. ;)
 

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Girls have said to me "You're crazy," "You're outrageous" "you're rude" "you're so arrogant!" and then go and excitedly tell their freinds about what I've just said, and then stick to me like glue telling everyone about what a shocking comment I've made. One girl kept saying to me "You're really funny, do you know that?" blah blah. When you get feedback you know you've got something.
 
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