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Do women like feminine features?

TheInfamousCBear

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Im not sure if this has been covered or anything, but I was thinking about it...Everyone always talks about having a masculine appearance, etc., but it seems like the broads like feminine features...

For example, when I was younger and I was really skinny, if I let my hair grow to a good length and I was cleanshaven, people say I look like my mother...Now that doesnt really sound good, but for some reason, girls really liked it...Then as I got older, I got the goatee/shaved head thing going and I put on alot of muscle, and it seemed like less girls liked it but the ones that did like it were really into it...Now Im more lean and Im cleanshaven and my hair is longer like how I was in my younger days and now it seems like women are more receptive to me in general...Alot of women say I have nice eyelashes too..Now keep in mind I have the masculine body language and the added size and I carry myself well, but could you say women prefer feminine features over masculine ones?
 

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it all depends dude, doesn't matter which one you choose, just pick what makes you you and go with it.

yes women like both masculine and feminine guys. it just depends.

just don't be incongruent with it.
 

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chicks like a combination, For example lets say someone who looks like the rock walks into the room, Not every woman in general will find him attractive cause hes too big, then someone who looks like leonardo dicaprio steps in, again only a section of women will find him attractive, the ones that dont is because hes too wussy looking.
with combination of both traits more women will be more open to you, think brad pitt, goerge clooney (strong jaw,nice eyes). though feminine guys will get most 6s and 7s, a masculine male will get the 8s and the rare 9s but thats because the 6s, and7s think they dont stand a chance with the masculine guy. The key to masculine guy is to make yourself less intimidating.
 

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Actually, it's like the nice guy thing. Women like nice guys, but wouldn't date them or use them for having children b/c that isn't beneficial for the child's survival (biologically).

So although they find feminine features attractive they, would prefer the masculine features for child bearing. Studies show they have a preference for the feminine features when they are on their periods.... in other words when they CAN'T have children. B/c they would like their kids to have traits from a masculine male (kinda like natural selection)

well, if my explanation is confusing in whatever way, here's a link.



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Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Originally posted by Mr. Unique
chicks like a combination, For example lets say someone who looks like the rock walks into the room, Not every woman in general will find him attractive cause hes too big, then someone who looks like leonardo dicaprio steps in, again only a section of women will find him attractive, the ones that dont is because hes too wussy looking.
with combination of both traits more women will be more open to you, think brad pitt, goerge clooney (strong jaw,nice eyes). though feminine guys will get most 6s and 7s, a masculine male will get the 8s and the rare 9s but thats because the 6s, and7s think they dont stand a chance with the masculine guy. The key to masculine guy is to make yourself less intimidating.
That could be what was going on, cause when I was bigger I was as big as a linebacker but I slimmed down, I still have the T shape to my body and carry myself as if I was the same size...Youre about right cause it was the more aggressive/sexual/confident women that were all on me, but there arnt that many of them and most women acted like they didnt like me or something...I like the combo I got going now cause the look still is masculine with the T shape but im not as big as before which people were threated by and I got some of my mom's facial features...Thanks yall...
 
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