"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do women like feminine features?

TheInfamousCBear

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Im not sure if this has been covered or anything, but I was thinking about it...Everyone always talks about having a masculine appearance, etc., but it seems like the broads like feminine features...

For example, when I was younger and I was really skinny, if I let my hair grow to a good length and I was cleanshaven, people say I look like my mother...Now that doesnt really sound good, but for some reason, girls really liked it...Then as I got older, I got the goatee/shaved head thing going and I put on alot of muscle, and it seemed like less girls liked it but the ones that did like it were really into it...Now Im more lean and Im cleanshaven and my hair is longer like how I was in my younger days and now it seems like women are more receptive to me in general...Alot of women say I have nice eyelashes too..Now keep in mind I have the masculine body language and the added size and I carry myself well, but could you say women prefer feminine features over masculine ones?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it all depends dude, doesn't matter which one you choose, just pick what makes you you and go with it.

yes women like both masculine and feminine guys. it just depends.

just don't be incongruent with it.
 

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chicks like a combination, For example lets say someone who looks like the rock walks into the room, Not every woman in general will find him attractive cause hes too big, then someone who looks like leonardo dicaprio steps in, again only a section of women will find him attractive, the ones that dont is because hes too wussy looking.
with combination of both traits more women will be more open to you, think brad pitt, goerge clooney (strong jaw,nice eyes). though feminine guys will get most 6s and 7s, a masculine male will get the 8s and the rare 9s but thats because the 6s, and7s think they dont stand a chance with the masculine guy. The key to masculine guy is to make yourself less intimidating.
 

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Actually, it's like the nice guy thing. Women like nice guys, but wouldn't date them or use them for having children b/c that isn't beneficial for the child's survival (biologically).

So although they find feminine features attractive they, would prefer the masculine features for child bearing. Studies show they have a preference for the feminine features when they are on their periods.... in other words when they CAN'T have children. B/c they would like their kids to have traits from a masculine male (kinda like natural selection)

well, if my explanation is confusing in whatever way, here's a link.



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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Mr. Unique
chicks like a combination, For example lets say someone who looks like the rock walks into the room, Not every woman in general will find him attractive cause hes too big, then someone who looks like leonardo dicaprio steps in, again only a section of women will find him attractive, the ones that dont is because hes too wussy looking.
with combination of both traits more women will be more open to you, think brad pitt, goerge clooney (strong jaw,nice eyes). though feminine guys will get most 6s and 7s, a masculine male will get the 8s and the rare 9s but thats because the 6s, and7s think they dont stand a chance with the masculine guy. The key to masculine guy is to make yourself less intimidating.
That could be what was going on, cause when I was bigger I was as big as a linebacker but I slimmed down, I still have the T shape to my body and carry myself as if I was the same size...Youre about right cause it was the more aggressive/sexual/confident women that were all on me, but there arnt that many of them and most women acted like they didnt like me or something...I like the combo I got going now cause the look still is masculine with the T shape but im not as big as before which people were threated by and I got some of my mom's facial features...Thanks yall...
 
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