"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do Women just hate average

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I've always seen women flocking to the two extremes in the fraternity. The popular pretty boy frat stars or the biggest bums in the fraternity. Same in real life, I see them with rich good lookkng guys or trashy drug dealing mofos like black thugs and white trash.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe you should consider average women yourself and stop whining..
 

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Okay guys , I dint want to start a new thread

Met this woman who is 7 years older than me but she looks young as hell.
Hung out last night , took a few shots and dance at my friends house. Drop her home and got a kiss ..I could've escalated but I had work early and was already 1 am when I dropped her off.

I didn't msg her today but she hits me up tallinn me how last night was night meeting me and she liked my personality and laid back style.

Thing is I just want to have fun and not go into relationship talks , I have been telling her but she just don't get it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mike32ct said:
I don't follow.

She wants an average guy that DOESN'T sweep her off her feet?

Could you explain? (Maybe it's just a typo.)

SARCASM MIKE!

Do you want average OP?? Really man comon now! Most broads are boring IMO!

I don't look for average t*ts & a** I want both to be......BAM there. I usual get want I want too.

Even the fun broads are only fun cause I put them in that enviroment, with sh*t I enjoy doing.
 

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Women don't hate average. Hate would indicate that they care... no one really cares about ordinary. Women are attracted to fun and excitement. .. ie emotional stimulation... this is why they gravitate to the extremes.

The funny thing is when you are with a women in a relationship she subconsciously tries to move you and change you into something average... knowing if you are a puggy average guy no other woman is going to take you away... The problem is when she does this she sows the seeds of her on disinterest in you.

If she has high self-esteem she'll just dump your @ss. Which is actually the kind thing to do, if she has low self-esteem she will torture you until she out and out hates you, making it easier to dump you... or driving you away. Either way YOU are the @sshole.

Best way to stop this is to just not let her change you into some average boring jackwagon.
 

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Average simply does not register in womens mind in terms of value, given 10 men she is not gonna rank them according how attractive they are, she is gonna consider attractive the top 2 or 3 and simply not register the others as man worth of being recognized as such, they will simply be drones good for working or support.

The drug dealer is no the bottom, the nice guy is the bottom in fact the drug dealer is able to get respect from other man and get what he wants whetever getting money illegaly or by threath or brute force, somehow he is still a winner when it comes of results.

Let me make an example, imagine an average law abiding guy which works as an employee in a office, his car gets broken he goes to the mechanic to get it fix and the mechanic break it even more to suck him dry, what is he gonna do? pretty much nothing.

Now its that pusher that goes there, the mechaning will not do any bad to his car and will fix it quite fast, the pusher can get even a special discount by showing his knife or making it clear that he has nothing to lose, if he is a "good guy" he could promise some free goods.

Now you got who is at the bottom and whos not? women now are not different from women 10k yrs ago, they always side with the strongest.

So no women dont hate average, women simply consider those at the top of the food chain, the others simply dont exist in terms of rights or consideration.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're thinking in the wrong dimension. What you think is "average" is not average - it's boring. How exciting and to a lesser degree fun is it to have this man in her life? that's what you should be ranking by.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
So no women dont hate average, women simply consider those at the top of the food chain, the others simply dont exist in terms of rights or consideration.
I have witnessed that kind of exclusion myself. Talking on a social level here, many of them detest fat and ugly guys with a passion. Some just tell these guys that they should feel shame for feeling low about themselves, but at the same time are actually playing into their insecurities with what comes out of their mouths. The guys are just left metaphorically hanging.

I mostly have guy friends. We all have been made to feel like outcasts in our lives and we'd never pull this insecurity-mongering **** on each other.

These sorts of situations are where the battles need to be fought. Instead everyone is distracted by all of the jewels of the state- TV, radio, sport, music, movies, newspapers, new moves by the govt....

Nowhere else to turn. No other voice. The guy feels that looking good must be the only way to gain approval (notice I put APPROVAL, not attraction).

Seriously, with a load of crap I got from my internet experience I had to seek reassurance from family and therapists.
 

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sambwoy said:
I have witnessed that kind of exclusion myself. Talking on a social level here, many of them detest fat and ugly guys with a passion. Some just tell these guys that they should feel shame for feeling low about themselves, but at the same time are actually playing into their insecurities with what comes out of their mouths. The guys are just left metaphorically hanging.

These sorts of situations are where the battles need to be fought. Instead everyone is distracted by all of the jewels of the state- TV, radio, music, movies, newspapers.

Nowhere to turn. No other voice. Seriously, with a load of crap I got from my internet experience I had to seek reassurance from family and therapists.

Women don't hate fat and ugly guys until the fat and ugly start hitting on them that the guy just doesn't get the message that they are rejected. THEN a woman will hate them. Men do the same with fat uggos that won't go away.
 

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From my experience its the impression of hate they give. They can be overwhelmingly cruel. I'm from England, and the studly Hollywood hunk is just not realistic to attain or for women to get.

If its to be believed that so many British folk are ugly then you'd think the average British guy would be have plenty of choices, but not so.
 

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sambwoy said:
From my experience its the impression of hate they give. They can be overwhelmingly cruel. I'm from England, and the studly Hollywood hunk is just not realistic to attain or for women to get.

If its to be believed that so many British folk are ugly then you'd think the average British guy would be have plenty of choices, but not so.
feminists hate men, not all women. They just dont value u as a human being. Thats why. To them its not cruel, women will kick u when u r down, and they will justify their behaivor.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I met a so called 'lesbian feminist' last night at a party. When we started talking, she was pretty hostile, but you know what... you get them alone from thier support group, and be a real man, not one of the Beta wimps that orbit around them apologizing for being male, and wishing they were castrated, and you know what happens... you end up walking her back to her car and making out in the parking lot, with her asking if you want to come back to her apartment and meet her cats. This is what happened last night.

I told her no, but that I would meet her at an event next Wednesday... going to let her stew and think about me... if she is there alone I'll invite her back to my place after the event so she can try and convince me of her position, meet the 'stray cats' that I feed outside my apartment, and then fvck the sh!t out her. Then watch over the weeks how she changes. If she really is Bi, maybe they'll be a 3-way MFF in my future.

Guys we have nothing to fear from feminists, the real problem is the beta wimps that feed into that BS. All women respond to the same thing, many of the so called feminists just never find themselves around real men that want to fvck them... change that and they change on a dime. This is why the feminist movement hates us Alphas so much, they KNOW the true nature of women. If we were not a threat to their mindset they would not try to shout down any legitimate debate.

Next time a feminist gets in your face, just give her a little smirk, a bit of negative body language and look at her like you want to fvck her.... then watch her change. Before you guys doubt me, try it... it's freaking awesome. The only problem you're going to have is when her bull dyke 'girl-friend' catches you.
 

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If you focus on your passion, hobbies and interests having a clear individual goal then women will become less of a priority, more transparent and ultimately a typical average amongst the masses - Regardless of her beauty. See how you can turn the tables. Plus, you shouldn't give a f.ck about other fellas and their achievements with women. NEWSFLASH - Life doesn't owe you a favour. The same as attraction. It is what it is. Get out there and follow your goal's. Something the typical average won't do.
 
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