You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
And that´s why you were banned.:kick:DJF AGAIN! said:Its called being human............
loving sex................
it's what I keep tryin to preach to you dumbazzes but you seem to not know how to fvckin READ AND COMPREHEND.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
someone needs to bann you again, your preaching sucks. your advice sucks, your logic really sucks a throbbing veiny pre-cumming ****, and also you suck.DJF AGAIN! said:Its called being human............
loving sex................
it's what I keep tryin to preach to you dumbazzes but you seem to not know how to fvckin READ AND COMPREHEND.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes. Pretty much.Zero Hero said:Is this what you generally see? Women never being single and just hopping from one boyfriend to the next?
Bann this cvm drinking trollDJF AGAIN! said::crackup: lol, god I svck? Lol, are you sure about that?
Weren't you the one with the “looks theory” what happened to that great big wonderful post you were going to make on that buddy? I’m still waiting to come on here drunk one night and take a whiff of that bullshyt.
Lol, seriously dude you need to calm down before you burst your little blue balls open. I svck, lol? I can back up any claims I make here, can you? I can provide you with numbers of chicks I fvcked and if you have any manness about you (which I doubt) they might even party wit ya…but seeing that you know, “looks are the main thing” maybe the women should wait until you’re done downing your cup of cell-tech and trying to get that 250 pound barbell off your chest? Lol, and don’t ever come at me like that again you little bytch…..
DJF AGAIN! said:And back to Zero, I mean, why is this sooo hard for you guys?
Be in sexual state, let the thing progress to sex, if you just stay in sexual state, it all progresses....it goes to the massaging, kissing, foreplay, etc...it all leads right to sex. Now, you do need a strong positive attitude, positive belief, and positive outlook on the world as a foundation or "base" for this to really be successful...then just go right into "being in the bedroom" and you'll have a great flow...and don't let anybody or anything STOP YOUR FLOW
Now, after you fvck a girl, depending on the "type" of girl she is, she might be what I call
1. Girlfriend Material
2. Close Friends with Benefits Material
3. Just Fvck Material
4. Just Fvck and Social Proof Material
You run into problems when you try and make each and every girl you meet out to be a 1 or 2....MAJORITY will be 3, some will be 4.
If I were you, I would just build myself a nice pvssy flow of about 10 girls scattered in each category......
So to answer your question, why do women jump from here to there? Well, because women are really JUST LIKE MEN....they like sex! Being in sexual state you're telling a woman (non-verbally) that "I can bang you nicely" then she allows you to "back up your claim" and when you are actually having sex with her, you need to make sure you are hitting her "DEEP SPOT" and giving her the best she's ever had.
If you don't know about the DEEP SPOT, I guess I could go into that later if I'm not banned again.![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It really depends on the woman/girl.Zero Hero said:Is this what you generally see? Women never being single and just hopping from one boyfriend to the next?
I pray that you were typing this up after you drank a bottle of hard liquor.everywomanshero said:You have to put this hatered in the past and realize women will be your best friend you will ever have my brothas.
He's right about that. Women can def. be your best friend.Tazman said:I pray that you were typing this up after you drank a bottle of hard liquor.