"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do women have any interests other than men?

JdelaSilviera

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Yes, of course we also care about them or wouldn´t be here. But while guys have lots of interests, women look like retards always with their cellphones giving hopes, texting to several guys, and talking to their friends how x and y are pursuing them.
When they are not talking about men, they are talking about dresses and shoes, wich they must have, to impress other women, and getting more men that the others...

And really, if you pay attention, most women are ugly without make ups and the dark lights of the club. So why all the fuss? I really think that man should stop chasing as much, it´s the same thing with spoil kids... you just have to stop giving so much attention..

I´m also tired of this smart phones crazyness....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JdelaSilviera

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You are right, i have 3 sisters... and I can tell you their friends really suck. That story of BFF´s forever is so bull.... most women hate each other
 

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Women have plenty of interests besides men. They like shoes (to impress men), cell phones (to contact men), Facebook (to collect men), women (to talk with about men), makeup (to attract men), and their career (so they can say they don't need men).
 

mahoney

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just means the women you know are boring

meet better and more interesting ones
 
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Tbh I dunno apart from video games, gym, (guitar which Im bored off these days), football (which I rarely play these days)

I dont do anything much either

I must be pretty boring.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOL@bigneil's post.

No most women usually don't have any real interests, it would seem that their entire existence revolves around emotional stimulation via males. However there are a few who like sports, art, music & such but obviously when one of the right dudes enters the equation those interests suddenly take a backseat.

Unfortunately the fuss is that as men(especially young men) our bodies are hardwired to seek out as many mates as possible, added to the fact that with little to no hardships or serious responsibilities(talking about us western males here), there's plenty of time to chase poon. You can also blame the media & internet porn for amplifying it.

For a lot of men these days having sex is used to feel good, escape the hardships of life & acts as a source of validation. So it doesn't matter if chicks look considerably less attractive w/o make up or that most of them are in actuality pudgy with stretch marks & dimples in their butt cheeks with saggy boobs. Dudes are still gonna chase.
 

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I noticed they also develop self defense, they use this to play mind games with guys who they are not interested in.
Also if they found a guy who she likes she will throw her self at him, so she also needs to learn some impressing techniques.
 
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