"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok I keep reading on how girls look at are shoes ect..what about what we drive does it even matter??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes.

And no.

Driving a set of fancy wheels may turn her head once or twice. It's a power/money thing, and chicks rush to power and money like iron filings to a magnet.

But...

If you've got a sent of nice wheels and spend a lot of time and money taking care of it, investing in new chrome whiz-bangs and whatnot, she'll feel like a second fiddle.

Some chicks, though, see a show-off car as a penis extender for those fellows who may be compensating for something. Maybe it's true, maybe it isn't, but some do think like that.

Cars rust and break down. Invest your time and effort into making yourself a better person. Now THAT'S what quality chicks really want.
 
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it depends
in the us, getting a car isn't THAT hard, if we compare to my country...

i think for a LTR u gotta have some wheels, and keep the car clean, washed..

but u don't need THE car, hell, actually u don't need a car, it's just another comodity but any dj can successed without it
 
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What is much more important than what you drive, is having ANYTHING to drive. Having a car helps you out so much. And while having a nice car can certainly help, I wouldn't say it gives you a huge advantage.
 
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My best female friend refused to date this guy because, quote, "He didn't have a car"

My 21 year old aunt broke up with this guy because, quote, "His car makes her look poor"

My neighbor, when offered a car by her parents, said, quote, "If you're going to give me a crappy car, I'd rather walk"

My cousin said the same thing.

Shallow.

But the car matters.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I drove my friends ( im not getting one till college)1964ish impala, a bucket of rust. I had a good humor about it and we both laughed, especially when it wouldnt start.

If you act like your car is The Sh1t, show it to her confidently, keep it squeaky clean, and act like none other can equal its splendor, itll rub off on your car. If you try to hide it, tell her how bad it is, and she sees it, youre in deep ****.
 
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I happen to agree with dastal. I think its about attitude towards your car. I drive a 91 Lincoln LSC, old and big haha, i love it though.

As for women, it varies from one to another. I know a few that are obsessed with infiniti's for some reason. Personally i would hook a car up, maybe nice wheels, and a stereo system, but tahts it. I dont see why some people waste their time putting in lcd screens and ps2s and dvd players into their car. thats what your home is for...

personally id rather watch a dvd laying on my couch spending time with a cute girl than in a car where the middle console is between us :D
 
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Well where I'm from, there's not too many guys my age that actually have their own cars. Now, I'm not saying mine's much to look at (because it really isn't). I have an '86 Ford T Bird and my girlfriend's never complained. I mean she's jokingly said a few things about it, but she's never been embarrased to ride around in it. If you have to use your car as a way to get women, the relationship wont last. But overall, it all depends on the girl's IL of you, and the type of person she is.
 
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