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Don Juan
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I've had the occasional compliment about my green eyes. Anybody else get this sometimes?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh yes, just curious. I'm not white and seldom see whites here, so I've 2 questions :Yes, my eyes change from blue to green, I get compliments about that..........but seriously eye color makes literaly NO difference to females.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yes, but in the "Holy sh!t you're a freak!" way.Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
It does in China!!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Interesting question, I've never heard anyone ask that beforeOriginally posted by Nikar
From Smooth Player:
Oh yes, just curious. I'm not white and seldom see whites here, so I've 2 questions :
1) Do blondes/brunettes/red-heads change their hair color naturally over time?(no dyes)
2) Do white people's eye colors change over time too? Like from hazel to dark green etc.?
Thanks,
Nikar.
Wow, He must be Super SaiyanOriginally posted by BrotherAP
I have known people, however, whose eye color changes from time to time just based on mood. They might normally have green eyes that can turn hazel when they're excited.