"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do women care about your eye color?

GuitarPlayer

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I've had the occasional compliment about my green eyes. Anybody else get this sometimes?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smooth Player 056

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Yes, my eyes change from blue to green, I get compliments about that..........but seriously eye color makes literaly NO difference to females.

~smooth
 

S0LID

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Jeese this forum is going down hill. Whos reality do you live in son? Be the selecter not the selected. Just snap out of it man, mods delete this crap.
 

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From Smooth Player:
Yes, my eyes change from blue to green, I get compliments about that..........but seriously eye color makes literaly NO difference to females.
Oh yes, just curious. I'm not white and seldom see whites here, so I've 2 questions :

1) Do blondes/brunettes/red-heads change their hair color naturally over time?(no dyes)

2) Do white people's eye colors change over time too? Like from hazel to dark green etc.?

Thanks,
Nikar.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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diplomatic_lies

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
It does in China!!
Yes, but in the "Holy sh!t you're a freak!" way.
 

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Do women care about your eye color?


>>> No. (& my shortest response to a thread question ever).
 

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Can you do anything about it? Damn, use what you got. If you've got great eyes, all power to you, if not, you can't use it to your advantage. Damn.....
 

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Yes they do care, they also care how big your penis is, and they care how much money you make too.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GuitarPlayer

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Good grief, guys! I just asked a curiosity question. I wasn't trying to start a flame war. No, it isn't the most earth-shattering topic in history, but I hadn't seen it brought up before, so....
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Women care about your eye-colour on the same superficial level that they care about how tall you are, your hairstyle, etc.

Sure, a nice set of eyes can help you out. For instance, I have been told all my life have really nice eyes and women will often use this as an opener or to shift the conversation.

So sure, it can help but it doesn't REALLY matter. That's the luxury of being a man. A fat man has the ability to appeal to women through emotions OVER physical characteristics.

Women don't have it so easy. Some fat chick can game on me all she wants - it won't change the fact that I'm not gonna be f*ckin her.

~Vibe~
 

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I always have girls/women comment on how blue my eyes are. I think they love em.

whoknows
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BrotherAP

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Originally posted by Nikar
From Smooth Player:

Oh yes, just curious. I'm not white and seldom see whites here, so I've 2 questions :

1) Do blondes/brunettes/red-heads change their hair color naturally over time?(no dyes)

2) Do white people's eye colors change over time too? Like from hazel to dark green etc.?

Thanks,
Nikar.
Interesting question, I've never heard anyone ask that before

1) Hair color can change over time. Many people will have light blonde hair when they are children that darkens to dirty blonde or even light brown by the time they finish puberty. I've also seen girls with red hair that faded from vibrant red to a pale strawberry blonde. Other than hair turning grey later, this is the only hair color change I've seen firsthand.

2) As far as I know, no. I've always had dark brown eyes, my sister has always had green eyes, and my good friend has always gotten complimented on his lumniscent blue eyes. I have known people, however, whose eye color changes from time to time just based on mood. They might normally have green eyes that can turn hazel when they're excited.
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
I have known people, however, whose eye color changes from time to time just based on mood. They might normally have green eyes that can turn hazel when they're excited.
Wow, He must be Super Saiyan :p :p :p (The guys in Dragon Balls whose hair turn blonde and eyes turn green)
 

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Ok, if a girl wouldn't date you simply b/c of your eye color, then chances are she has other ocd's, idioisynchrosies, or fetishes that you don't even wanna imagine.
 
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perhaps the color of your eyes are just adorable and she wanted to make you feel good.
 
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