do woman have impossible standards?

[PlatoPacks23]

to me imo it seems that with social media especially, woman are ALWAYS just looking for the absolute top prize when dating. So if you don't fit the physical standards (height, body fat, amount of followers etc) it is extremely extremely difficult to get a girl. I'm in pretty decent shape etc but there are just some things you can't physically change about yourself and other factors as well..

I am just wondering for people who've been doing this longer has it gotten tougher in more recent years than past?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes. Most modern women have priced themselves out of the market. Their standards are delusional.

Men, invest in pet food companies.

 

[Stanley]

Yup, for the most part. Don't let it get to you though, just accept it and keep on doing your thing. If a girl rejects you based on some arbitrary standard she wasn't worth your time to begin with .

"Oh you're not 6ft and only 5'11??? Pass"

Why would you want anything to do with that chick anyways?

 

[BadBoy89]

to me imo it seems that with social media especially, woman are ALWAYS just looking for the absolute top prize when dating. So if you don't fit the physical standards (height, body fat, amount of followers etc) it is extremely extremely difficult to get a girl. I'm in pretty decent shape etc but there are just some things you can't physically change about yourself and other factors as well..

I am just wondering for people who've been doing this longer has it gotten tougher in more recent years than past?

If a man is decently educated, generally women only care about a man’s height and hair, a man has those and he‘s Golden.

It woudl take alot of money from the man to substitute for his height. If a man is 5’8 and has $1,000,000 and decent job, or if a man is 6’2 and has a decent job, she will take 6’2 guy. The million is nothing for her, the height is more important.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

If a man is decently educated, generally women only care about a man’s height and hair, a man has those and he‘s Golden.

It woudl take alot of money from the man to substitute for his height. If a man is 5’8 and has $1,000,000 and decent job, or if a man is 6’2 and has a decent job, she will take 6’2 guy. The million is nothing for her, the height is more important.

sigh lol

 

[Murk]

This only applies to 9s and above

If you can’t get an 8 it’s a you problem.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

This only applies to 9s and above

If you can’t get an 8 it’s a you problem.

mhm depends
I've met RARE 9's and 10's who are more open to dating or more socially awkward, but in general find 7's and 8's to be even pickier sometimes lol

 

[pranshu]

mhm depends
I've met RARE 9's and 10's who are more open to dating or more socially awkward, but in general find 7's and 8's to be even pickier sometimes lol

I have observed that too..maybe due to they are insecure and they desperately want to be as popular and attractive as 9s and 10s.. that's why they use the "fake it till you make it" approach..

 

[Bingo-Player]

So what if she has standards if she 's an 8 or a 9 she has to have standards !!

she's in the deep end of the pool she wants to know who can swim out there and not drown !!

Some of these really beautiful women do have SERIOUS attitude problems, they can be indecisive and illogical and it drives men fvcking mental

But she knows this , she knows she wants a man made of steel who can handle any of her sh1t

My EX was a bonafide 8 ( and i hate to say that because she was a terrible person on the inside ) but one of the first things she said to me when we started dating was " i want a man that can handle me"

We dated for 6 months and it was me that ended it because she was actually toxic and i genuinely didn't like her as a person


This is your job out there now fellas , you don't get the girl with impossible standards by complaining about the impossible standards

You do whatever it takes to break through them .

 

[PlatoPacks23]

I have observed that too..maybe due to they are insecure and they desperately want to be as popular and attractive as 9s and 10s.. that's why they use the "fake it till you make it" approach..

that makes ton of sense, girls who are pretty (and have "decent" followers online) but want to be the "10's" of the world

The 9-10's in general are also 9's or 10's in personality (or just VERY surface level otoh) bc they have nothing to prove to anyone and don't feel need to overcompensate

 

[pranshu]

So what if she has standards if she 's an 8 or a 9 she has to have standards !!

she's in the deep end of the pool she wants to know who can swim out there and not drown !!

Some of these really beautiful women do have SERIOUS attitude problems, they can be indecisive and illogical and it drives men fvcking mental

But she knows this , she knows she wants a man made of steel who can handle any of her sh1t

My EX was a bonafide 8 ( and i hate to say that because she was a terrible person on the inside ) but one of the first things she said to me when we started dating was " i want a man that can handle me"

We dated for 6 months and it was me that ended it because she was actually toxic and i genuinely didn't like her as a person


This is your job out there now fellas , you don't get the girl with impossible standards by complaining about the impossible standards

You do whatever it takes to break through them .

Yes I get that its a **** test obviously..but is that test really worth the prize?? I think that depends on the man..For me, mental peace and sound sleep when I come home from work are really important..I need to RECHARGE, not DISCHARGE. So for me at least, its not worth it.

 

[SW15]

Most women have too high of standards.

The big problem is when 23-24 year old women like Leah Fennelly get older and don't drop their standards.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Yes I get that its a **** test obviously..but is that test really worth the prize?? I think that depends on the man..For me, mental peace and sound sleep when I come home from work are really important..I need to RECHARGE, not DISCHARGE. So for me at least, its not worth it.

She's not a prize she is just a woman there are literally millions out there and they are all different

I think guys have the most problems with women because they take them so seriously and are so outcome dependent

Guys women are CRAZY i don't know how many times i have to say this

Her mood can change faster than a traffic light she has absolutely no control over it or her emotions

Just approach them , mess around with them , be chill , tease them , flirt , make jokes and eventually some of them will want to sleep with you

 

[shwami_salami]

Where are yall findin these wmn w/impossible standards?? If anything its easier for us bcs most young guys have given up and r hopeless socially, romantically, nd emotionally!not to mention most are lazy and not working. IRL wmn jus want a decently attractive, mentally sane guy who provides support, just like we want a mentally stable wmn whos at least cute.
I think I overdosed a bit on these pills. after cooling it off I realize that these grifters r trying to confuse young men into being bitter nd give up. making things easier for THEM.

ps social media aint reality

 

[jaymbrs]

 

[RangerMIke]

Women, by and large, live in the emotional moment. One day she might be crying in her coffee, regretting her decisions, second guessing the regular normal average man that loved her, but who she wasn't attracted to so she pushed him away... she might reach out to him in one of these moments... and the dude... if he really doesn't understand women, NOW believes his turn at bat is up!

But then that moment passes.... and he is soon back to being ignored.

Because most women are emotional, they do not know how to differentiate between screening criteria, and evaluative criteria. Screening criteria is 100% objective and rational, evaluative criteria is subjective and emotional. To them they are both the same...

They appear to have unrealistic expectations, but in reality it's just that they can not sort out what is really important. BTW, since so many men today are also very emotional, they are pretty much the same.

 

[devilkingx2]

Women have higher standards in certain situations but unfortunately those situations are the most common to meet them in.

Very attractive women in a night club get hit on 10 times a night by top guys

Online dating is so skewed against men that you need to be an 8/10 to get an HB6

In daygame you'll meet a lot of women who already have a man or are otherwise not particularly looking, so you need to be exceptional to get any attention.

In times past there was no OLD, which means all the girls on there would be at the club or walking around in the daytime much more desperate for a man or attention.

In the distant past women didn't have real jobs so all women desperately needed a man to live a normal life.

 

[Bingo-Player]

In times past there was no OLD, which means all the girls on there would be at the club or walking around in the daytime much more desperate for a man or attention.

Women complain about OLD as much as men

Why !?!

I tell you what you try having the same conversation 75 times a day

"hey XYZ" how are you today "

"So what do you do for work "

"Oh nice what are you looking for on here"

90% of guys are sending messages like this on these apps , because they don't know what else to say

APPs are a waste of time for both sexes , they are good women who want a little attention boost and catfishes but believe it or not this is probably a very small % of women

I mean look boil it down , your an attractive chick are you REALLY going to pop over this random guys place you don't know just to get laid ? i mean the risk factors are off the fvcking scale

men think like this , women do not

I'm sorry i just don't buy it , i read a stat that said about 70% of swipe users say they have never met anyone off the app and that i belive

 

[SargeMaximus]

Women complain about OLD as much as men

Why !?!

I tell you what you try having the same conversation 75 times a day

"hey XYZ" how are you today "

"So what do you do for work "

"Oh nice what are you looking for on here"

90% of guys are sending messages like this on these apps , because they don't know what else to say

APPs are a waste of time for both sexes , they are good women who want a little attention boost and catfishes but believe it or not this is probably a very small % of women

I mean look boil it down , your an attractive chick are you REALLY going to pop over this random guys place you don't know just to get laid ? i mean the risk factors are off the fvcking scale

men think like this , women do not

I'm sorry i just don't buy it , i read a stat that said about 70% of swipe users say they have never met anyone off the app and that i belive

Hmm. If a fat chick had a standard conversation with me, I’d tune out and block. If my fave porn star did? I’d be loving it. Same for women, if a man she thinks is alpha is having a boring convo with her, she will love it

 

[Stanley]

Women complain about OLD as much as men

Why !?!

I tell you what you try having the same conversation 75 times a day

"hey XYZ" how are you today "

"So what do you do for work "

"Oh nice what are you looking for on here"

90% of guys are sending messages like this on these apps , because they don't know what else to say

APPs are a waste of time for both sexes , they are good women who want a little attention boost and catfishes but believe it or not this is probably a very small % of women

I mean look boil it down , your an attractive chick are you REALLY going to pop over this random guys place you don't know just to get laid ? i mean the risk factors are off the fvcking scale

men think like this , women do not

I'm sorry i just don't buy it , i read a stat that said about 70% of swipe users say they have never met anyone off the app and that i belive

For most, this is the case, but for very attractive men it is not.

I pulled girls off tinder and that's because I follow the two rules of tinder. That and I don't sit there and ask em about their day or their personal life, that is what the meetup is for. Going mode one-esque through tinder worked well for me and the handful of girls I met up with were attractive. Several of the girls I met told me they had never actually met the guy they matched with, yet here they were in front of me. Once I got their numbers I called them up and we chat over the phone a bit, that put's them at ease as well and makes the meetup less stressful. I've yet to have a girl not answer warmly doing so.

If you are above average in looks then be put together, have good photos and cut to the chase and strike while the iron is hot. The girls that just want attention can be sifted out within a good 5 texts back n forth. Most guys try to befriend the girl over text and do your typical noob afc crap and give the girl attention. If I don't have her number within a few exchanges I just leave mine and say i'm not interested in penpals and move on to the next one. Tinder was great practice for me, but I took myself off the app for a while as I found it draining and at times overwhelming to deal with. It can be a blackhole for both sexes