Solomon
Master Don Juan
For a high value you male you certainly spend a lot of time on hereI've definitely high value.
How about you?
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
For a high value you male you certainly spend a lot of time on hereI've definitely high value.
How about you?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
switch it up! challenge yourself!As a white dude, I win so much, I am literally tired of winning.
I am an "old white guy" and doing quite well,BUT you have to be and "old white guy" with game and be game aware.Old white guys that are idiot's still do not do well.. to quote John Wayne "Life is hard, it's even harder when you're stupid"OLD white men are the most desired this isn't a punchline this is a fact
America is still a mostly white country, with blacks being a minority, once again empirical evidence proves my pointHmmm, interesting.
Although it appears black women prefer black men, even over white men.
And white women prefer white women over black men.
All this means is that in black countries black men do better, and in white countries white men do better.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What is a lot of time?For a high value you male you certainly spend a lot of time on here
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Deflection typical female tactic.....What is a lot of time?
Also, what's your excuse?
Don't get mad because you got nailed.Deflection typical female tactic.....
Why care about attention wh0res online no less? trust me they're doing you a favor unless you prefer to waste your time with low lives.No, I don't win. They ignore my messages and messaging fizzles after the 3rd or 4th. They just stop messaging. I'll only send one message. I'm an attractive WHITE man with assets. They are getting inundated with 10s of desperate dudes. They eat it up and suck in the attention. I'm just another number, even if I get them on the hook messaging back n' forth. She'll get distracted and move on to the next guy. There is no commitment in OLD. They can't talk to you Straight either. You must, I guess, perform. I just lay my d!ck out on the table and let the chips fall where they may, and MOST (feminist) women nowadays don't understand my directness or honesty. They want Excitement and LIES, so you can lie and paint yourself as much greater than you are, then these idiot females online dating will probably meet up with you. Then you can pump and dump.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When I said OLD I meant Online datingI am an "old white guy" and doing quite well,BUT you have to be and "old white guy" with game and be game aware.Old white guys that are idiot's still do not do well.. to quote John Wayne "Life is hard, it's even harder when you're stupid"
Smarter than you? aren't you the guy who got exposed in the other thread for keyboard jockying? saying social circle game is for low value men, than double back and trying to cover up your folly?Don't get mad because you got nailed.
You're not smarter than me. But keep trying if you want.
You're being disingenuous Danger like alwaysYour point that....what? There are more whites than blacks in America? So what?
White women want white men, black women want black men. I don't see how this translates to white men being the King's of the dating world.
As a whole, yes they do because white guys actually put in the work to being attractive. I see a lot of them lifting, taking the best pics, experimenting with the profile, and doing everything they can to market themselves well.
People often compare an ugly ethnic to a tall handsome white guy but it has been my experience that even on online dating, handsome ethnic guys with good profiles perform at a very good level and at times even equal to their white friends.
But the issue is, ethnic guys have a major victim's mentality that is tough to reason with, they cry like babies and don't take responsibilities for their failures.
So you will have an ugly, overweight, or poorly put together ethnic guy pulling the race card instead of putting in the work.
I think part of this is cultural, ethnic guys come from a background where men do not have to put in the work to attract women. A lot of men can be fat and ugly yet get women through some made up status (caste system, etc.).
Now these same guys come out west and find that they have to be good looking and have game to get the finest women, instead of improving, they blame it all on race.
So to put it in other words, white guys win because they actually put a lot of effort into making a profile presentable, looking good, and marketing themselves to women in certain ways that just work.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Solo if any dude is using OLD and trying to work 4x harder to get the same results as their white counterparts in regards to OLD then you really need to take a look at yourself and why it's "worth" it to try and work 4x harder for bottom of the barrel chicks.Exactly and I always say this, as ethnic guys we gotta work 4X as hard to get the results our white counterpart get
This just things the way the are this is why I approached over 3,000 women in a 4 year span
You have to be dedicated if you wanna win
agreed mate but i'm saying as you know OLD is all about looks and even if you're ethnic as long as you look good the OLD game will be easierSolo if any dude is using OLD and trying to work 4x harder to get the same results as their white counterparts in regards to OLD then you really need to take a look at yourself and why it's "worth" it to try and work 4x harder for bottom of the barrel chicks.
"King" of OLD = King of the garbage dump.
Might be easier to get meets etc, then again not so "easy" dealing with nutcases and low quality toxic chicks. I've been left that nonsense probably now going on three years.agreed mate but i'm saying as you know OLD is all about looks and even if you're ethnic as long as you look good the OLD game will be easier
What could they possibly want from you?I find that chart to be accurate. I get more initiation messages from Black and Indian women than my own Race, WHITE. I usually Only send a first message to my Own race. They'll dibble and dabble, but usually come off the hook and swim somewhere else. It's probably my pictures (not as good as other guys), and they say "women aren't 'visual'" or "don't care about 'looks'" but if THAT were the case, then WHY do they spend hundreds a month at their hairdresser??? It's funny seeing a woman not having enough money to doll herself up EVERY week, EVERY day. They just seem more depressed more sad, more hopeless, more apt to drugs. The warpaint they apply is more smeared and not very well done or paid attention to.
I'm on OLD as a 41 yr old. That stings as a WHITE, but honestly, I get about the same response I did when I was early 30s, not much. The Females are their to reign in the compliments. They don't give a rat's ass about You, unless they see a glaring benefit to be gained at minimal cost on their part (what they can 'get away with' always Scheming). Briffault's Law, very REAL and true.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.