Do we need to be an AFC?

[tatlongxxx]

Being a DJ for almost 2 years and having an LTR of 2 years. Is it possible to be and AFC sometimes, just to express our affection wirth the girl.

What if a girl wants us to prove that we love them? What shall we do?

 

[squirrels]

DO something fun and extraordinary for her. You don't have to be a "chump".

 

[MrCode]

Being nice to a girl when she deserves it does not mean that you are being an AFC. The difference is doing it because you want to and she deserves it, not because you are kissing up and expect to get something for it.

 

[tatlongxxx]

i don't know how to be mysterious, is that the way?

 

[Scrumtulescence]

From my experience, being mysterious involves not revealing things she may want to know and sending mixed signals/messages. It seems to make chicks more intrigued by you.

 

[Dirtheart]

The difference is doing it because you want to and she deserves it, not because you are kissing up and expect to get something for it.

I totally agree. There is no problem with being nice and showing your girlfriend affection. In fact, if you don't you will probably lose out to the next guy who does.