"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do we have a date?

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just kind of wierd..

listen to this convo:

me: hey i dont think i'll be able to make the date tonight, something came up.

her: o... it's ok mike, i guess ill see ya tom then?

me: yea.. hey, u free tomorow around 4-5 afternoon?

her: maybe.. why do you ask?

me: i wanted to take u out for coffee, there's a starbucks across the park.

her: Alright, I'll txt you after my class tomorow, ok.. Thanks!

me: ok ill see u tomorow, take care.

her: okay.. you too, take care always.

*the reason i made this thread was because she didnt seem to give a definate answer as to do we really have a date?, She answered "alright" but she never said yes. Or am i missing the point? I think im over analyzing again. :( *
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by -.-
She answered "alright" but she never said yes.
DUDE
You are fcking trolling this board with LAME and USELESS crap.

If you have too much internet time on your hands may I suggest www.thehun.com
 

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You are overanalyzing again.
 

-.-

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Re: Re: do we have a date?

Originally posted by Don_Marko
DUDE
You are fcking trolling this board with LAME and USELESS crap.

If you have too much internet time on your hands may I suggest www.thehun.com
I am not trolling.. If you do not like my post, press the back button. I know there are alot of helpful people here that are willing to help.

If you arent, then like I mentioned ignore my post and push back. So sorry if u think this is useless. It's not useless to me, i'm looking for help. And if ur not willing, there are others who are. You are the one who is cluttering my thread. :|
 

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Re: Re: Re: do we have a date?

Originally posted by -.-
I know there are alot of helpful people here that are willing to help........

i'm looking for help.
....to help you how? Say maybe you are using wrong angle when making EC so the b!tch won't look at ur ugly ass? Or maybe you forgot to change poopy underwear so she kinos everybody else but you?

OKAY let's post something constructive about this thread....
right she didn't say 'YES', however 'all right' is definitely an affirmation however not as strong one as 'YES', it's even weaker than 'I'd love' to and definitely not as positive as 'I'll suck your dck tommrow'. Is that analysing enough for you?

Dude you aren't looking for help, you are looking for a way to do your favorite sport.. KEYBOARD JOCKEYING!


Disclaimer: I will not flame this thread anymore, so don't waste your time again replying me, but you probabbly will anyways :p :p :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think this girl is sitting there wondering, "I wonder what he meant when he said the word 'wanted'". Probably not. You're the prince right, they should be worrying about how you said things. You're the DJ so why should you spend time worrying about something like this when you have a million more important things to do.

Read the DJ Bible!
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: do we have a date?

Originally posted by Don_Marko
....to help you how? Say maybe you are using wrong angle when making EC so the b!tch won't look at ur ugly ass? Or maybe you forgot to change poopy underwear so she kinos everybody else but you?

OKAY let's post something constructive about this thread....
right she didn't say 'YES', however 'all right' is definitely an affirmation however not as strong one as 'YES', it's even weaker than 'I'd love' to and definitely not as positive as 'I'll suck your dck tommrow'. Is that analysing enough for you?

Dude you aren't looking for help, you are looking for a way to do your favorite sport.. KEYBOARD JOCKEYING!


Disclaimer: I will not flame this thread anymore, so don't waste your time again replying me, but you probabbly will anyways :p :p :p
Thank you that was a good response. No i'm not a keyboard jockey! WTH.. Infact, im going out now.. Yeah, right now.. *walks out the door* :D
 
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