"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do u think this girl would leave her BF for me?? lol

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Okay here are just some signs from her that I saw:

-Wanting to touch me
-Ask me twice (maybe without knowing it) how my burnt foot was in a conversation
-Grab my arm and squeeze tightly
-Tease me
-Avoid talking about her boyfriend in front of me most of the time now
-Ignore me some of the time whereas if we were friends she wouldn't do that
-Before sh*t tests all over the place, not so many now


Do u guys think this is enough to show that she likes me now?? What should I do from here to escalate the relationship? Touch her more? Ignore her? Talk to other girls more in front of her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you plan to steal. Stealing should be done away from public view. As criminal as it is.

Escalating in public is risky. Do everything kino in private.
 

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She is a ho with a BF.... no matter which dumb foool becomes her boy friend next she will continue to be a ho and F whom ever she wants when ever she wants... Do you want that to be your girl friend?
 

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Her BF is a biggggggggggg AFC and I suspect she was interested in me before she got together w/ her BF.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She'll crush you. If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you. I would pass.
 

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if you are trying to f.uck her, then of course escalate, touch her do everything this site teaches you. And don't make any direct attacks on her boyfriend. Remember, the most useful BF destroyers are the ones when you are subtly implying that she will get stuck with the guy forever, which is something most girls fear, especially at the beginning of a relationship.

But the title of your thread is a huge red flat for me... you want this girl to leave him for you? as in, you are ready to take her as your GF if she leaves him? that sounds like a horrible plan, like other posters have said once a cheater always a cheater. A girl rarely leaves a serious relationship to get right back into a new one, no matter how great of a guy you are.

so go for the f-close, but don't worry about her leaving her BF (especially not for you)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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escalate and hit it.. then since she will have established herself as a slvt.. you can try to work a FFM in with that :D

no emotions!
 

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i think if u are better than her bf, of course.
Are you better than her bf? what are you better than him at?
 

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Why would you want her to leave her BF for you? So she can leave you for some other guy down the road?

This thread of yours is your first wake up call that you are interested in the wrong types of girls.
 

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I don't mean to generalize but all girls cheat right? One way or another. Her current boyfriend is one of the biggest wuss I have ever seen and he turned her into a spoiled ***** also (Always try to meet her demand and stuff). I don't know whether I'm better than him or not but at least I'm not the AFC type like him. So even if I don't go for her right now, she will eventually end up getting together with other guys who don't even treat her half as well as her current boyfriend. However I do consider the fact that she might leave me in the future even if we get together that's why I'm kinda hesitating.
 

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Avn_0903 said:
I don't mean to generalize but all girls cheat right? One way or another. Her current boyfriend is one of the biggest wuss I have ever seen and he turned her into a spoiled ***** also (Always try to meet her demand and stuff). I don't know whether I'm better than him or not but at least I'm not the AFC type like him. So even if I don't go for her right now, she will eventually end up getting together with other guys who don't even treat her half as well as her current boyfriend. However I do consider the fact that she might leave me in the future even if we get together that's why I'm kinda hesitating.

Glad you know the consequences. What others here don't realize is that your not quite serious about the having a relationship with her, just having her is all.

As much as a mean bastard as you may sound. The day she cheats on you will balance the scale and I'm all for your to steal her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lol comon, you guys make it sound so freakin bad. Even though I like the girl but considering the consequences I still want her to leave her BF on her own rather than because of me. They have just gone out for like 3 months and looks like she's kinda bored w/ him already (according to some of my friends, she only went out w/ him because of desperation). They are not going to see each other this summer since each has to go back to their countries. I'm hoping she's going to break up with him then, then I can come in. In the mean time I'm just going to find some other girls but since for girls in my area supply doesn't meet demand so it's going to one hell of a competition.
 

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No, all girls don't cheat.

But if that is your style, then I say what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Have at it. Don't come crying back here when you hurt yourself, though.
 

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iqqi said:
No, all girls don't cheat.

But if that is your style, then I say what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Have at it. Don't come crying back here when you hurt yourself, though.
iqqi is right, not all girls cheat. I think we want to believe that for the most part, but I dated girls who never cheated, and I know they didnt.

Some girl I work with, her boyfriend cheated on her with 6 other girls, and I was like... Cheating is disrespectful, and she was like "Thank you"

It works both ways. Some girls dont want their man cheating on them, so they dont do it. Now i'm not saying girls dont cheat, cause there are many who do, but you cant say all.
 
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