Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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do u think females know our game stuff

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My question arises because I meet a lot of under 25 gals.

do they know about our games, tactics, what ever you want to call it? And do they care?

seems to me that over 35ish females don't care too much about your game, swag, etc...cuz they just want to be homely, house, kids, and just working and not partying.

more specific...if I'm being ****y and funny with this next 19 yr old, will she be one step ahead of me knowing that I'm just getting her pvssy wet, and turn the tables around on me.

since there are some dudes who don't get it, are there girls who don't get it also? I haven't met too many women who were push overs, orbiters,etc.
i mean, i have dated girls who treated me to such and such, but the minute they knew they were being had, they dropped me like a bad habit.

part of this question comes from my frustration that even when i know and apply the game, it seems that the club promoter gets more girls...the Ferrari fvck gets more models, etc.

i mean, i do have my good months of play, but with all this knowledge it still isn't as easy as i would prefer it.

maybe i got fatter, stopped talking from the heart, or just because i know my value im resting on my laurels.

long story short.. Do they know our tactics and If they do, how to regain the upper hand?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think they all figure out eventually that we have wayyy more of a clue than the 100 betas and white nights they talked to this week. Then they implement sh|t tests to test our frame.. Then once they figure us out that "we get it" I think they are attracted to that. I think they respect the he|| out of us for having a clue , as well as a spine.

Girl I'm seeing now has commented 2x times or so that "Lefty, what you did XXXX really upset me.. but i wanted to wait until I calmed down before bringing it up to you because i know if I come off as too crazy when I am mad you will not put up with that. " And my comment "Yep, you know me well, I won't".
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
yeah they know. They know how to feed a "player's" ego, have had it done to me and admitted to me by female friends.
You're like one sad lonesome cautionary tale.



OP, your issue is you're using "tactics". That's fine for a pick up line or to be sprinkled in when you get her back to your 'crib'. But, when you are most effective, is when you're 'game' is internalized. You're using game, but really you are not. The 'tactics' aren't actually tactics. Why? Because it's YOU.
 

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True DJs don't have game... no 'tactics'. Like Peaks&Valleys said you just be the best you can be, physically, emotionally, and intellectually. You don't have to lie and play games. Be as good as you can be and good women will come to you

Understand what women really want in a man and be that person to the best of your ability. Women are attracted to Looks, Money, and Status (LMS), that if she is going to fall in love with you, you have to drive her interest level up by being confident, exhibiting self-control, and by being indifferent to results. If a woman still doesn't want you, you walk away from her and find someone else. Keep doing this... don't get emotionally attached... and eventually you will find a woman that wants you for who you are.

PUA stuff doesn't really work on quality women, why... because quality women are not stupid... to answer your question.. Yes they know all the games. They are absolute experts on relationships, they can read you like a book and they know with almost 95% certainty that you are BSing them. When it comes to realtionships, they are F-16s and we are Sopwith Camels.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
You're like one sad lonesome cautionary tale.



OP, your issue is you're using "tactics". That's fine for a pick up line or to be sprinkled in when you get her back to your 'crib'. But, when you are most effective, is when you're 'game' is internalized. You're using game, but really you are not. The 'tactics' aren't actually tactics. Why? Because it's YOU.
Spot on. It has to be internalized.
 

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Our 'game stuff' is to penetrate as many women as possible. Of course women know our game stuff. Why else do you think this forum was invented?
 
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