"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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do u think dis is rather effective

guayaballer

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if your scared to aproach a grl or a group of girls that are at the beach or any where just pretend your frum another country like this would werk if yuo are bilingual and you been to that country so you know what yuor talking about girls wouldnt be a ***** to someone who noew to the country mb a awesome conversation and curiosity about you? iono might field test this nut wanted to see if you thought it was stupid and your being kinda fake but hey its just an idea
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Thats a bad idea. Heyy yea, lets promote being fake...not.
 

ticks

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Sounds good.. how are you going to start?

and how are you going to make it work? how long do you plan to pretend? the entire conversation?

guayaballer said:
if your scared to aproach a grl or a group of girls that are at the beach or any where just pretend your frum another country like this would werk if yuo are bilingual and you been to that country so you know what yuor talking about girls wouldnt be a ***** to someone who noew to the country mb a awesome conversation and curiosity about you? iono might field test this nut wanted to see if you thought it was stupid and your being kinda fake but hey its just an idea
 

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:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

So, now instead of overcoming our fears we hide behind a silly accent and facade. Great adivice for guys who want to be AFC for life.
 

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guayaballer said:
if your scared to aproach a grl or a group of girls that are at the beach or any where just pretend your frum another country like this would werk if yuo are bilingual and you been to that country so you know what yuor talking about girls wouldnt be a ***** to someone who noew to the country mb a awesome conversation and curiosity about you? iono might field test this nut wanted to see if you thought it was stupid and your being kinda fake but hey its just an idea
Something tells me you don't have to pretend ...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You can pretend at first and then (when you're comfortable) start talking in the native language all of a sudden,then c+f/neg about it and them coming to the beach to "hunt hot tourists".
 

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ticks said:
Sounds good...
Of course it would sound good to you, seeing as you were trying to promote deception in another thread:

ticks said:
Hey..

I just got a date with a girl. Here is how i did it.

I --> Who will win the world cup
She --> Italy
I --> I think France will win (Be honest, i think italy will win to, but i say France anyway)
She --> France will not win. Trust me.
I --> Want bet? Let's bet on a Buffet
She --> (umm.. thinking,) sure.

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That is the trick. You see it?
 

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Don't lie. Go throw a frisbee in the pack of girls on the beach like every other guy...
 
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