"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do U LoVe UrseLF ?

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Thats the question all you guys have to ask and really think about. Think about your daily actions and who you are. What kind of character you got, what your purpose and goal in life is. What I am trying to say is that if you don't like yourself who will? If you don't trust believe and take care of yourself then who will? Picture this : Imagine a person just like you, he does the same things you do, says the same things you say and is basically just 100% you.... NOW think this.... would you hang out with that person? Do you imagine yourself having fun with that person and sustaining a great relationship and etc....
If you are not going to date, hang out, or like yourself..... well then who will?
Its like watching a movie from a 3rd person prospective but you see yourself in that movie. What kind of movie is it? Is it adventure? Is it romance ? Is it comedy but what about the character? What kind of character is he?
Discover yourself, better yourself and balance yourself all.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonafide

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I like myself but im a real serious person, nobody likes a serious person
 
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