the player has all the characteristics of a real man of course a woman is going to be attracted like how men are attracted to sluts.. but one thing remains: most would not want to have any relationship with either of them.
I dont think the player has all the characteristics of a real man. I think a real man has passions n dreams in life which always come first before any woman. May it be flying jets, racing V8s, playing sports, or lifting weights, watever. But i am sure one of his dreams wouldnt be to have plenty of hoes to call up on his cell fone. Yes he might have tons of women after him but he will only go after one.
A player might have the same passions n he might give them more importance to them than his "Hoes" but he will never be able to stay with one person. He cares more about the sex n the physcial pleasure he gets from it after that is move on to the next one.
A real man values sex more than just physical pleasure.
A real man will not go sleeping with all of them "Hoes" or ( try the shoe on before you buy it styles) for he is not a man *****. He will go after the one who he sees as a perfect match ( who definetly wont be a hoe) for him n he will have sex with her not just for physical pleasure but to really connect to her on an emotion n spiritual level. He will not be obessed with her like an AFc, he will not treat her like his hoe, but he will treat her as his woman. Just like a true DJ. (And thats why I am posting all this crap up so I can find out what I am doing wrong and where I need correcting so I can become this real man, a true DJ, a role model to my kids so that tomorrow they cant look upto me n see the way I treat their mom n the way I handle things in life, n my attitude towards everything, so they learn n dont turn into a wuss like an AFC, and not like a player or a womaniser or a jerk who beats up their mom cos he doesnt give a crap about her even if shes an awesome person)
I dunno about you but even if a chick is really pretty as soon as I find out shes a slut her value in my eyes drop big time. I dont see a slut someone whos awesome in the sack, but someone whos easy to get into, nearly as bad as a prositute, at least the prositute is getting paid for it.
"However, they would be attracted to guys who have more experience with women (and who are therefore more confident and know how to handle themselves), and this greater experience may make them appear to be 'players'."
I do agree with you and think that woman are more attracted to guys who have their pick on who they want. N nearly all these guys are confident and know how to handle themselves. Yes some of these guys are DJs n sometimes do appear to be players.
I dont mind girls seeing me as a player, but the problem is I am turning into one and I am trying to stop it. I wanna turn into a Dj the great catch, not someone whos slept around with every hoe on the block.
