like say you with a girl all day having fun at the end of the day you end up saying or trying to say something romantic. will it get the girl to kiss you. i.e you eyes are like stars or some crap like that. i was thinkin about trying it on this girl i am going on a date with but saying it in her native language which is hindi. comments?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
do those cheesy romantic lines in movies ever work
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Say something with the right tone, body language, background, confidence, and just about anything you say could work.
War Against Betaism
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That's just about the answer to every question that could possibly be asked in this entire message board.Kev07 said:Say something with the right tone, body language, background, confidence, and just about anything you say could work.
Randallpink83
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the only line i ever use... no matter what the situation.. I use it 100% of the time. "You had me at hello"... so far it's never worked but i will keep trying, I'm all about movie cheese.
nicenomore
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i wouldn't advice it. IMHO , It comes off as deliberate and canned. Plus , its equal to a pick up line and a direct opener combined
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
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In the movie "Big Fish", the main guy falls in love with this girl and finds out she likes daffodils. So he plants an entire field of daffodils for her. In the movie world, this is a sweet and honest gesture. In the real world, this would scare me and I'd cringe away from the guy.
If you want to be romantic, don't rely on movie lines. The girl will know it didn't come from you anyway. Rather than saying, "your eyes like stars", etc, simply hold her gaze for longer than usual and say, "I like your eyes."
I don't know the inner workings of Hindi, but having spoken Vietnamese to my boyfriend several times, I will say that it's important that you know exactly how you're addressing your significant other in that language. In some languages (like Vietnamese), there are many forms of "you", ranging from family, friends, lovers, teachers, children, etc, and even then, each of those categories may have several sub-categories. Once, I used "ahn" form of "you" on my boyfriend because I used an internet translator, and it ended up being way too intimate. Still, he appreciated it all the same...
If you want to be romantic, don't rely on movie lines. The girl will know it didn't come from you anyway. Rather than saying, "your eyes like stars", etc, simply hold her gaze for longer than usual and say, "I like your eyes."
I don't know the inner workings of Hindi, but having spoken Vietnamese to my boyfriend several times, I will say that it's important that you know exactly how you're addressing your significant other in that language. In some languages (like Vietnamese), there are many forms of "you", ranging from family, friends, lovers, teachers, children, etc, and even then, each of those categories may have several sub-categories. Once, I used "ahn" form of "you" on my boyfriend because I used an internet translator, and it ended up being way too intimate. Still, he appreciated it all the same...
kdnash82
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The answer is no.... Unless you make it your own... Turn those cheesy lines into jokes and you're golden... Using them straight out thinking the girl is gonna fall head over heels in love with you, and you're gonna have a hard life. She'll probably laugh, but it won't be the way you want her laughing.
Me: Hey what's going on?
Her: Nothing much, how bout you?
Me: Nothing. I'm just wondering... what's the cheesiest line you've heard tonight.
Her: Well... some guy came and asked me "what was the cheesiest line I've heard tonight"
Me: Girl stop playing.. You know I had you at "Hey"!!
Most girls have seen this movie. She thought it was hilarious.
I use this same line all the damn time, but only as a joke and I put a spin on it. Like one time I opened a girl with:the only line i ever use... no matter what the situation.. I use it 100% of the time. "You had me at hello"... so far it's never worked but i will keep trying, I'm all about movie cheese.
Me: Hey what's going on?
Her: Nothing much, how bout you?
Me: Nothing. I'm just wondering... what's the cheesiest line you've heard tonight.
Her: Well... some guy came and asked me "what was the cheesiest line I've heard tonight"
Me: Girl stop playing.. You know I had you at "Hey"!!
Most girls have seen this movie. She thought it was hilarious.
SenorSuave
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You could use a movie line as a C and F statement.
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Depends on the girl.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
K you gotta stop saying that if you want a girl with any kind of self respect, and about 95% of them do all the others are crack *****s. If you say what you say in a serious tone your never going to get any, it says that you are despirate and that all she had to do to earn you is talk to you. They dont want that. What if you talked to some 4 and she said that, you would run so fast. Same concept.Randallpink83 said:the only line i ever use... no matter what the situation.. I use it 100% of the time. "You had me at hello"... so far it's never worked but i will keep trying, I'm all about movie cheese.