"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do they really like you? Please read!!!

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Elf

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How do you explain dating a girl, and you are not the average handsome man, in fact, lots of girls rejected you because you weren't their type of man and she starts talking about some guys in school, she calls them "gods" because of their body and you start thinking why is she is with you then.... ever wondered that?

I mean if you are ugly and you see her checking other guys out, why is she with you in the first place? because you make her feel good about herself? because you are nice with her?

But there are other guys who can make her feel good and have great looks right? This is happening with me and i can't help but feel that i'm just a temporary thing for her... i'm sure i'm not the only one who has had these kind of thoughts

Well, who can explain what goes on their minds, knowing that is almost impossible to understand what they really like/want.~

Any opinions would be appreciated fellow master djs and apprentice djs

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's human nature for her to feel interested in other attractive males, just as you do with other females. If your abilities to keep her hooked are not lakcing, then there's nothing to worry about because she knows that having you is not a right, it's a privledge.
 
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Hey Fellow DJ. Just remember... your a DJ. Your a real man. I once took two girls from two members of the varsity football team. They were both far better lookin than me. But the difference between them and me? Im a MAN! The whole damned team hated me. But not one did a damned thing.

U are a DJ. U are a MAN. if u have a problem... u solve it. If u are upset about a current situation with your girl. Then tell her. Solve this problem. Either work on jealousy issues, or get her to stop, or get a girl that will worship you. Your the MAN and you should have it YOUR way homie.



*cheers* brother
 
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You need to get over your insecurity and inject some confidence in your rear end!! This is by far one of the most AFC posts I have EVER read!!! Don't be so hard on yourself and realize that looks ARE very important to getting the interview, but your personality is what keeps her hooked.



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It's not always this way, just the hotter girls that tend to not have as much trouble with men.

I remember when I had my first GF, I didn't make too much effort to keep her around, and she complained about all this stuff about me, but in the end, she was begging me not to dump her since I got fed up with her whining and I just straight up asked her what the heck she was doing with me then. Apparently she was probably more desperate to have a guy than I thought.

It's all a power struggle, that's why if you want a lasting relationship, don't shoot too high, unless you want short term, or you're in the mood for working your ace off trying to keep her interested, which to me is total B.S.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lots of girls do this and let their thoughts be known in order to put some drama in the moment.. she wants you to get all "fine go be with him".. what I have ALWAYS done and this has always worked for me is when the girl says something like this ill say "ok well while you go talk to him im gonna go & visit *insert a girl that your gf doesnt like (there is ALWAYS one of these)* and it will flip the situation and make her have to make it up to you..
 
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Not to sound mean or anything but it could be she could be just settling with you because she can't have him and can't get any better.
 
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Healthy dose of reality - some girls just cant imagine themsevles without a guy, becuase they believe their value in society will be lowered. That is exactly why girls sometimes go for someone far from their first choice.

Elf, are you having sex with her? Do you want to be with her, or just afraid of being alone again?

Next time she mentions one of these guys, tell her straight up
"Listen, i could give a fukk about those guys, you want them, go get them, im more than willing to let you go"

I'll bet you she will act a lot better after this.

good luck
 
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This is what you going to do:

Make her be in your world by you not being predictable. ie) When she trying to hold ur hand .. reject.. when she asks for kiss.. reject .. then .. when she is least expect it .. u give her warm hug and kiss etc .. (typical DYD technique)

Make her feel that you are the prize by macking other ladies in front of her (just light flirt will do).
 
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