rgeere
Master Don Juan
Do non-manipulative, non-controlling, non-hateful women actually exist?
I've never found one... Have you?
I've never found one... Have you?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
do they really exist?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, they do. I date several of them. However, like a good scotch and fine wine, you have to wait until they age a bit before you find them.
Every now and then, i find a girl who is really down to earth, who calls when she says she will and who knows the importance of homemade chocolate chip cookies in a man's diet. You just have to look in the right places. You aren't likely to find them in a bar. My best results are in Barnes and Nobles and Starbucks.
Every now and then, i find a girl who is really down to earth, who calls when she says she will and who knows the importance of homemade chocolate chip cookies in a man's diet. You just have to look in the right places. You aren't likely to find them in a bar. My best results are in Barnes and Nobles and Starbucks.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
The only girls that I date go to church even and they still turn out like that. I'm sick of it...
jakethasnake
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It's not even about how pious you are or how much of a star-student/wonderful daughter a woman is. It's about having the right, especially COMPATIBLE mindset. That's all it takes. This is what people talk about when they say they "met the right person". It's all about being in the same point in both your lives.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It's getting to where I don't care anymore about the looks of a woman, but more about her behaviour. I've met far far to many girls that do nothing but play games of control and manipulation and it's becoming rediculous.
I guess I have either two choices, I can't always tell the diffrence between the users and the truly good hearted ones at first sight, so I guess I could just not look for anyone at all.
The second one is to take a hugh risk and hope that I have chosen someone that will stay true to me.
Somehow I highly doubt option number two, as that I know for a fact that any woman short of a man's mother will not love a man 100%.
One thing I know for sure is that this last century really screwed up the feminine role of american women, so I am definatelly atleast cutting them off of my list of choices. I'm actually debating moving to another foreign country assuming I could find one with a cultural balance I can handle in other ways.
I guess I have either two choices, I can't always tell the diffrence between the users and the truly good hearted ones at first sight, so I guess I could just not look for anyone at all.
The second one is to take a hugh risk and hope that I have chosen someone that will stay true to me.
Somehow I highly doubt option number two, as that I know for a fact that any woman short of a man's mother will not love a man 100%.
One thing I know for sure is that this last century really screwed up the feminine role of american women, so I am definatelly atleast cutting them off of my list of choices. I'm actually debating moving to another foreign country assuming I could find one with a cultural balance I can handle in other ways.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sex0r
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Well there obviously are women that are just plain old fashion girls that love you for what you are and whit which u can have a home somewhere in the suburbs of NYC with 2 kids, a huge garden a dog and cat and a big brand new family car and she shud kiss u every morning when u go to work and have u dinner ready when u come back from work.
There are thousands maybe millions of such women out there.. the hard part is finding them and take them home with you!
Good luck in finding the ideal woman
There are thousands maybe millions of such women out there.. the hard part is finding them and take them home with you!
Good luck in finding the ideal woman
Sex0r
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Well there obviously are women that are just plain old fashion girls that love you for what you are and whit which u can have a home somewhere in the suburbs of NYC with 2 kids, a huge garden a dog and cat and a big brand new family car and she shud kiss u every morning when u go to work and have u dinner ready when u come back from work.
There are thousands maybe millions of such women out there.. the hard part is finding them and take them home with you!
Good luck in finding the ideal woman
Oh yea... u forgot to mention one little insignicative option in your poll... namely YES
There are thousands maybe millions of such women out there.. the hard part is finding them and take them home with you!
Good luck in finding the ideal woman
Oh yea... u forgot to mention one little insignicative option in your poll... namely YES
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Sex0r, women in romania do not treat men the same way that american women treat men. In fact, I've been told over and over by other much older and experienced men that romanian women are some of the best if you want a woman that will treat you the way that a man deserves.
So in a way you are right, but I know that there isn't a very good chance of me finding an american girl like this unless she's from another culture in which women actually value their men.
So in a way you are right, but I know that there isn't a very good chance of me finding an american girl like this unless she's from another culture in which women actually value their men.
Abnigh9
Master Don Juan
Agreed, these kind of women are almost impossible to find. Especially around the age of 20. I know MANY 40+ y/o women who will love you unconditionally but talking about young teens. Stupid immature lovers.
And I'm talking about the American womens.
And I'm talking about the American womens.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It's comforting to know that by the time American women start acting the way they are suppose to towards men both sexes are already more than half dead.
Reminds me of the lifecycle of trout, sad.....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Man, talk about being cynical. Well, I somewhat share your frustration, but I have never had a girl friend. I just keep getting rejected when I try. However, you can't give up hope. You know the old saying, "Those who go looking for trouble will always find it." If you keep thinking like this as you are looking, you will most likly find the wrong women. You must never lose hope, for that is a dark path that lies before you. Hope is what you need. Besides, you don't need a woman in your life to be happy. If anyone should be bitter it should be me, never getting a chance to feel loved romantically. However, I choose hope, not hopelessness.
playfulboy
Don Juan
Australian women don't tend to be as screwey as US ones.
I've had LTR's with quite a few women who are wild, but together.
The only one that tried to dominate me was an Italian girl, who fvcked like a demon but told me what I could and couldn't do in my life from Date #2. I nexted that one pretty quickly.
So yes they're out there. At least here in Oz.
I've had LTR's with quite a few women who are wild, but together.
The only one that tried to dominate me was an Italian girl, who fvcked like a demon but told me what I could and couldn't do in my life from Date #2. I nexted that one pretty quickly.
So yes they're out there. At least here in Oz.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Well, if I really really wanted I could apply to certain universities in England, Australia, and also since I speak german Germany or Austria and still receive credit for my studies.
I'd like to see how australian girls are like, though. I think personally I'd be most compatible with the australian culture than the others if I was to have a choice.
I'd like to see how australian girls are like, though. I think personally I'd be most compatible with the australian culture than the others if I was to have a choice.