Do they feel flattered when we approach them?

[slipstreamer83]

I have been doing a few cold approaches lately, and even though I was rejected, I saw this little smile in their faces. That leads me to think that, even though they wouldn´t give out their e-mail, they felt flattered that a guy approached them, and felt attractive.

Would it be safe to say that, generally speaking, the worst case scenario we will encounter is a girl that rejects us, but we leave someone with a positive feeling? Isn´t it a good excuse to approach women whenever you want?

 

[Rockadeimis]

Yes, but I don't care if it makes her feel good. I do a cold approach because it helps me get over my fear and it can lead to a possible number close. How she reacts is not my top priority. What if you knew for a fact she would be upset...would you approach then?

 

[duttylove]

would you feel flattered if a girl approached you? dont let there feelings get in the way of your approach though!

 

[slipstreamer83]

What I mean is that you can be pretty sure that in, say, 80 - 90% of the approaches you do, you will stir positive emotions in her.

I think that most guys don´t approach because they think that the girl is going to feel bad or upset or anything negative. This is completely false. Yes, there are times in which you will upset her, but you can be pretty sure that in these cases she has psychological problems. This shouldn´t stop you, because there is another 90% of women who like to be approached.

So, the fact is that they want to be approached to feel well!!!

So, they guys who don´t approach yet, what are you waiting for?


Yes, I would feel well if a girl approached me. Even if I reject her, I will fell an attractive guy. This has happened sometimes.