Do the selling

[Eternal]

Confidence
Desire
Eye contact
Smiling
Leisure

If I name those, most of you might think "hey, DJ stuff!" Haha...Close. If you notice, salesmen will use that stuff. Why? To make a sell. Picking up females is not at all different.

AFC's don't get it. DJ's subtely know it. You aren't begging the female out, pleading...Instead, you are "selling" yourself to her. You work out...Make the appearence better. You dress a bit better to make things look nicer. Sure, you might get hit on a bit and picked up yourself, but to score more chicks...You gotta sell yourself.

Confidence: Salesmen are confident. After all...They know you are in their for a reason. No one is ever "just looking." Those people "just looking," are looking for something they like. EVERY girl is a potential "sale.''

Desire: Come on. You KNOW females want you. Just like salesmen KNOW you want that piece of clothing that you keep subtley looking back at. Why? Desire.

Eye contact: The eyes are the windows to the soul. You can actually read more about a person's eyes than body language. Salesmen look into customers eyes to see what they are REALLY thinking. "Oh, I'm not sure about this shoe..." Bull.

Smiling: Gotta be friendly. Or atleast appear that way. Which one looks better: An associate smiling and being nice when helping you, or being all "screw the world?" Trust me on this one.

Leisure: Why rush? Salesmen know "if someone doesn't buy this...Someone else will." You don't have to be nearvous when talking to females. Remember: So what if one rejects you? Two? Fourteen thousand? SOMEONE will accept you. Never give up.

Remember, always "sell" yourself. Otherwise, you'll be back there saying "I hope she picks me."

Don't forget...If you are exceptional, you will have "bidders." Who said only the highest bidder has to win?

 

[JohnElDonJuan]

Whatsup I like the concept behind the post but there's something about the post that I dont understand.

As Posted by Eternal

AFC's don't get it. DJ's subtely know it. You aren't begging the female out, pleading...Instead, you are "selling" yourself to her. You work out...Make the appearence better. You dress a bit better to make things look nicer.

Here you say I should work on myself to turn me into a better product, right? and I am not pleading or begging with the lady or showing her strong IOI's(indicators of interest) so I must be taking a more laid back approach to things right?

Sure, you might get hit on a bit and picked up yourself, but to score more chicks...You gotta sell yourself.

You say when I am a better product girls will give me IOI's but then you say I have to sell myself. When I think of selling myself I think of action. When I think of action I think of me doing something that shows interest thus destroying the idea of me having a laid back approach. Can you clarify what you mean by all this?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by Eternal
you are "selling" yourself to her

haha yeah we sure are. Get to the back of the line, and you know what my hourly fee is.

 

[Eternal]

John: You can sell yourself and still be laid back.

Here is a small example:

Selling yourself while NOT laid back: Going up to the girl hastily, looking around nervously, talking like one of those "door to door salesmen," and pretty much begging her. "Hey, I'm a GREAT guy, I love doing *blah blah blah.* Go out with me!"

Selling yourself while being laid back: Approaching her casually, being smooth and suave (look for convo tips on this site,) and not rushing anything (in terms of speaking.) Getting her number at the end and being mysterious and aloof.

Hope this helps.