"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do tattoos get misplaced...?

mcs

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do the tattoos get misplaced by growing muscles?
about me: i'm quite newbie to the irons but i like it. also i have 1 big tattoo covering my arm from shoulder to the wrist. and i am wondering about the possible side effects.
so, what's your experience??

thanks ahead and all the best, mcs.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shaunuk

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hmm, I don't know, but I do remember a lad at the gym telling me how he had to get his tattoo extended because his arms grew so much.
 

jahidi

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It makes sense that they would get stretched out if your arms grow, which is why you hear of people waiting until they achieve their ideal body before they get tattoos, not the other way around. So yeah I would think it is a risk.
 
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