"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do some women enjoy groveling?

insidious

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OK, lemme tell you why I ask this. It seems whenever I have bothered a chick with my desperate attention, she is more likely to respond to a first date at least.

Whenever I play that cool and aloof a$$hole, it seems there are no fish biting.

What is the happy medium between desperate loneliness and smug independence?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AgonyUncle

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Dude, if you are begging for the date in the first place, she has no interest level at all. Say goodbye, and move onto the next potential.
 

So pimp its scary

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Have you ever wanted an ego boost?

Well, desperate attention is nothing more than an ego boost to some women.

Why they wouldn't respond to you being aloof? I had this same problem at first... in my mind I didn't give a shyt, but my body language was wrong.
 

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If your body language says "Confident, Masculine" while your verbals say "Come on baby, you know you want to date me" - You have a more than 50% chance of actually going out with her. Body language speaks 3-5 times louder than verbal.
 
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