"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do some women enjoy groveling?

insidious

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OK, lemme tell you why I ask this. It seems whenever I have bothered a chick with my desperate attention, she is more likely to respond to a first date at least.

Whenever I play that cool and aloof a$$hole, it seems there are no fish biting.

What is the happy medium between desperate loneliness and smug independence?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AgonyUncle

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Dude, if you are begging for the date in the first place, she has no interest level at all. Say goodbye, and move onto the next potential.
 

So pimp its scary

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Have you ever wanted an ego boost?

Well, desperate attention is nothing more than an ego boost to some women.

Why they wouldn't respond to you being aloof? I had this same problem at first... in my mind I didn't give a shyt, but my body language was wrong.
 

DonJuanMonk

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If your body language says "Confident, Masculine" while your verbals say "Come on baby, you know you want to date me" - You have a more than 50% chance of actually going out with her. Body language speaks 3-5 times louder than verbal.
 
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