ChrisFloyd
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Just want to know how real men deal with their physical/mental discomfort/illness?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do real men go to doctors?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hmm
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A real man wouldnt ask such a stupid question...
CrimsonPanther
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thisHmm said:A real man wouldnt ask such a stupid question...
i go to doctor regularly. i also have weekly sessions with a psychologist and i go to gym 4 times a week. i like to keep myself in shape mentally and phisically. also i hate the term "real man". any man born with a wiener is a real man.
PeasantPlayer
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Hardly ever went to the doctor, hadn't seen one in a decade until I started developing panic and anxiety attacks. Got blood work done, every thing was fine. Try to prescribe me some medications which I never used. I turned to meditation which has cut my anxiety down by half in only 2 1/2 months. I still have bouts here and there, but I am much better. Before I could barely leave the house
What the F?
"Real men" are also people. Denying myself of a normal healthy living just because it means I'm "less of a man" is just beta.
I'm 21, I have a chronic skin condition, a lower disc hernia, testicular varicocele, neurogenic bladder and irritable bowel syndrome (which is suspected to be chron's disease), suspected arthritis, Temporomandibular Joint disorder (my jaw is f**ked up due to crossbite), damaged meniscus articularis and some other things I forgot.
I went through the following:
-X-ray on most major parts of my body
-CT of my lower back and legs
-MRI of my lower back
-Nuclear medicine whole-body bone scan (Bone scintigraphy)
-Sigmoidoscopy
-Colonoscopy
-Uroflowmetry
-Urodynamics
-Ultrasound of many organs
-Every possible blood, urine and stool sample test
Even after this, I don't consider myself as less of a man.
I'm awesome, I'm super manly and even though my ex knew about all these illnesses she didn't care because I never whined except when I was really in pain.
"Real men" are also people. Denying myself of a normal healthy living just because it means I'm "less of a man" is just beta.
I'm 21, I have a chronic skin condition, a lower disc hernia, testicular varicocele, neurogenic bladder and irritable bowel syndrome (which is suspected to be chron's disease), suspected arthritis, Temporomandibular Joint disorder (my jaw is f**ked up due to crossbite), damaged meniscus articularis and some other things I forgot.
I went through the following:
-X-ray on most major parts of my body
-CT of my lower back and legs
-MRI of my lower back
-Nuclear medicine whole-body bone scan (Bone scintigraphy)
-Sigmoidoscopy
-Colonoscopy
-Uroflowmetry
-Urodynamics
-Ultrasound of many organs
-Every possible blood, urine and stool sample test
Even after this, I don't consider myself as less of a man.
I'm awesome, I'm super manly and even though my ex knew about all these illnesses she didn't care because I never whined except when I was really in pain.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
SgtSplacker
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If it's something I don't think my body will heal naturally and perfectly from i'll go see a doctor. In the past maybe 20 years i've seen one once and not to get into any details but there was blood loss lol. I do want to see one now though, at 40 it really does feel like the warranty expired and I want to get checked out and see an allergist and stuff mostly to ask some questions.
Before 40 no doctors necessary...
After 40 i'd say it's time to man up and start getting checked out regularly.
Before 40 no doctors necessary...
After 40 i'd say it's time to man up and start getting checked out regularly.
logicallefty
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I try to avoid it at all costs but sometimes you just have to. Got bit by a cat back in 2009 and my hand swelled up like a balloon. I pondered over going to DR for 3 days, finally did. Dr said it was one of the worst cases of cellulitus he had seen and another day or two it would have been past the point of no return and I would have lost 90% of the movement in my hand for the rest of my life.
Sense then my tune on doctors has been a little more lax.
Sense then my tune on doctors has been a little more lax.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Screw doctors. I puree lizards and various other reptiles in a Ninja blender every morning at 5:45 am so I can regenerate myself like a green boss in the event of anything.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.