"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do psychopaths make good salespeople?

bob2007

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Met a doctor on linkedin, she got me an interview in China with the CTO of a hospital.

But the conversation with her started getting weird.... she'd leave me 100 messages a day on wechat, which I eventually left unanswered.
Every few months she randomly emails me now.
Today I got a message, "My ex husband just got remarried." lol

I'm wondering if psychopaths make good salespeople?
They sure are persistent.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wifehunter

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That, or geniuses.
 

Red Legg

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chefs are known for their ruthlessness and domineering personalities. especially with those who work under them which is pretty much everyone.
You have been watching Hell's Kitchen too much....LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Billtx49

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Have dealt with many car salesmen that I would consider to be psychopaths …
Only two stood out as not being one out of about 12 transactions.
 

Red Legg

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Have dealt with many car salesmen that I would consider to be psychopaths …
Only two stood out as not being one out of about 12 transactions.
Used car salesmen are wack jobs for sure...:lol:
 

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A psychopath will be an incredible car salesman.

Persistent as hell, takes rejection well, shameless self promoting etc.

The downside will be their inability to play well with others; stealing leads or customers etc.
 

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A lot of people i went to rehab with are salesmen. I'm good friends with a couple of them. They're both kinda fvcked up people. Both have substance abuse problems.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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