"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Met a doctor on linkedin, she got me an interview in China with the CTO of a hospital.

But the conversation with her started getting weird.... she'd leave me 100 messages a day on wechat, which I eventually left unanswered.
Every few months she randomly emails me now.
Today I got a message, "My ex husband just got remarried." lol

I'm wondering if psychopaths make good salespeople?
They sure are persistent.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That, or geniuses.
 
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MidnightCity said:
chefs are known for their ruthlessness and domineering personalities. especially with those who work under them which is pretty much everyone.
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You have been watching Hell's Kitchen too much....LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have dealt with many car salesmen that I would consider to be psychopaths …
Only two stood out as not being one out of about 12 transactions.
 
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Have dealt with many car salesmen that I would consider to be psychopaths …
Only two stood out as not being one out of about 12 transactions.
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Used car salesmen are wack jobs for sure...:lol:
 
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A psychopath will be an incredible car salesman.

Persistent as hell, takes rejection well, shameless self promoting etc.

The downside will be their inability to play well with others; stealing leads or customers etc.
 
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A lot of people i went to rehab with are salesmen. I'm good friends with a couple of them. They're both kinda fvcked up people. Both have substance abuse problems.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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