"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do politicians cheat on their wives b/c they don't put out?

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It seems that there is yet another "family values" politician embroiled in a sex scandal (Gov. Sanford of South Carolina), who although his staff said he had gone for a "hike on the Appalachian Trail", he really had gone to "spike some Argentinian tail". :crackup:

This got me wondering. It seems that all these men have stated that obviously have been having "marital problems". Is this just a code word for "my wife is no longer putting out, and I'm a horny man, so I went elsewhere for it"? Or perhaps just the Zeusian instinct in powerful men to hit a younger piece of azz then their older wives?

What do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think bill clinton was on the trip with the guy. we already know hillary's probably been an icebox since she became pregnant with chelsea. Perhaps a similar situation was up with the governor.
 

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We no longer have a law forcing women to have sex with their husbands. And monogamy doesn't mean you have sex either, so explain to me again why people get married?

It just occurs to me when I think about it that there must be either a valid reason I haven't come up with, or a lot of men are collectively afraid to usurp the establishment they themselves set up for much different reasons long ago.

Typically when something isn't working as intended we go 'hey this is broken what do we do to fix it?' Instead I see men just walking over the cliff like lemmings.
 

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I once heard Richard[forum won't let me say his name ****]Morris state"I think Hillaries into kinky sex"[code for lesbian?]. This from a Clinton aid fired for hiring prostitutes to suck his toes etc.-fired for letting them listen in on his calls with Bill.
 

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Since his wife seems to want a "reconciliation" instead of taking the oportunity to get out of the marriage as "the victim", I'd say she is not 100% the problem in this case.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SXS said:
Since his wife seems to want a "reconciliation" instead of taking the oportunity to get out of the marriage as "the victim", I'd say she is not 100% the problem in this case.
His wife isn't attractive, so I can see why he'd do what he did....yet me on the other hand, even if I had an attractive wife, I'd still be trying to bang other hot women.
 

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His wife isn't attractive, so I can see why he'd do what he did....yet me on the other hand, even if I had an attractive wife, I'd still be trying to bang other hot women.
His wife isnt atractive ? Well, I havent seen her yet.

I dont understand America... On one side, there are celebrities making sex tapes and puting on the internet to become more famous, on the other side, some other people are blamed and shamed on TV(they even read his private letters!!!) for having sex on their privacy... I dont get it...
Will anyone stop suporting his carreer because of this ?
 

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Undoubtedly. Our "Moral Majority" will go into Self-Preservation Mode and crucify him. I'll be surprised if we DON'T start hearing stories of sexual perversion and drug abuse, for how could a good ol boy take up a mistress if he WASN'T a pervert or junkie?
 

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Are you kidding?

They do it because it's readily available and low risk as far as the wife is concerned.

Their career? That's a different story, but wives of powerful men turn a blind eye to infidelity.
 

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piranha45 said:
I think bill clinton was on the trip with the guy. we already know hillary's probably been an icebox since she became pregnant with chelsea. Perhaps a similar situation was up with the governor.

At least I could understand Bill's cheating, if my wife were as ugly as Hillery, I wouldn't want to fvck her either.

But the, why did he marry her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SXS said:
His wife isnt atractive ? Well, I havent seen her yet.

I dont understand America... On one side, there are celebrities making sex tapes and puting on the internet to become more famous, on the other side, some other people are blamed and shamed on TV(they even read his private letters!!!) for having sex on their privacy... I dont get it...
Will anyone stop suporting his carreer because of this ?
The answer you are looking for is a simple one: there is no one unified "American culture". One American sub culture is making sex tapes, and another American subculture is trying for a religious revival. We are all Americans in that we share a common national history and some basics in political ideology (such as freedom of speech / religion), but otherwise we are not a "united" nation.
 

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Luthor Rex said:
At least I could understand Bill's cheating, if my wife were as ugly as Hillery, I wouldn't want to fvck her either.

But the, why did he marry her?
Because maybe he "settled". Further proof that not every hot woman is phased by a guy who's powerful and has a lot of money. Otherwise don't you think Mr. Clinton would've gotten married to a piece of ass? I'm pretty sure if he had the options to do so, he would've, given his history of always being on the prowl for women.
 

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STR8UP said:
Are you kidding?

They do it because it's readily available and low risk as far as the wife is concerned.

Their career? That's a different story, but wives of powerful men turn a blind eye to infidelity.
It appears that you may be right.
Undoubtedly, some women are drawn to power and status and men who possess those advantages many times exploit them by steppin' out.
 

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jophil28 said:
It appears that you may be right.
Undoubtedly, some women are drawn to power and status and men who possess those advantages many times exploit them by steppin' out.
I will never forget watching a guy I know walk into a club one night hand in hand with his mistress, followed by his wife's brother.

He lived with his wife in a HUGE house, Hummer, BMW 7 series in the garage, etc.

Turns out he was embezzling millions of dollars, and when the sh!t hit the fan and he got caught he lost the mistress (big surprise there!) followed shortly after by the wife. The wife call me up hysterical one night as they were going through the breakup, asking me why I didn't tell her he was cheating, she can't believe it, she feels so betrayed, blah, blah.

This and other things I have seen over the years (some of which I have experienced personally) have led me to the conclusion that the rich and powerful play by an entirely different set of rules.
 

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STR8UP said:
This and other things I have seen over the years (some of which I have experienced personally) have led me to the conclusion that the rich and powerful play by an entirely different set of rules.
Well minus the legal trouble that guy was in, I'd be interested in learning those "different" rules myself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is one of the most AFC things ever in the history of the known universe. This guy should be the new spokesperson for eHarmony.

Seriously, he had to fly clandestine ops style a third of the way around planet earth to hook up with some chick? Really? What's wrong with the 40 million or so that live within 200 miles of him? None of them were The One?

Jesus Herbert Walker Christ this is ridiculous.
 

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RedPill said:
This is one of the most AFC things ever in the history of the known universe. This guy should be the new spokesperson for eHarmony.

Seriously, he had to fly clandestine ops style a third of the way around planet earth to hook up with some chick? Really? What's wrong with the 40 million or so that live within 200 miles of him? None of them were The One?

Jesus Herbert Walker Christ this is ridiculous.
I'll tell you why he flew far away to hook up

ANONYMITY

He figured the risk is higher for hooking up with someone in the US - after all, she could blackmail him if things turn out sour. He thought hooking up with some foreign check is relatively low-risk - he does not have to worry about her spilling the beans, all he has to do is *hide* his trips from others
 

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I'll tell you why he flew far away to hook up

ANONYMITY
There are a bunch of other countries and territories much much closer where this same objective could have been achieved with equal effectiveness.
 

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well, maybe the president of argentina sent Bill and he a personal invite. Flying to Rome or Hong Kong or just Acapulco are all equally negligible expenses for someone who's rich and wants to keep his tail clean.
 

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RedPill said:
There are a bunch of other countries and territories much much closer where this same objective could have been achieved with equal effectiveness.
Maybe he was truthful when he said he was looking for something "exotic." Maybe he just had a thing for Argentina. When you're that rich and powerful, I imagine the difference in cost between flying to Argentina and a country closer to home is relatively marginal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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