I'm a junior in high school (will be senior in a couple of weeks), and I've decided that I want to start doing pickup since I'm going to have a lot of time on my hands for summer. I've had a gf before and am talking to a girl now that I've hooked up with a couple of times, but I want to start to learn pick up. But I was just wondering, is pick up something that people here actually practice daily/weekly in order to meet new girls? With pick up, are people able to actually get to the point of sex with a girl that they randomly approached on the street? Obviously, I'm new to the concept of pick up, but I want to talk to more girls and work on my game so if this is something that people actually do I might as well join in. Thanks
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do people really use pick up to meet a lot of girls?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Desdinova
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Yes, you can use pick up to get laid. HOWEVER, you need to know that pick-up is not a quick fix for your problems with women. You need to get out there and PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE. You cannot expect to become a pro and get laid just from doing a couple of approaches.
The best thing you can do is work on the weaknesses you have that women are attracted to you. If you're not fully confident, strive to reach for that. If you're not a touchy-feely person, try to become moreso. The ideal place to be is when you've internalized all the qualities that women find attractive, and use techniques as necessary to reel them in. Getting to the point where you can pick and choose which interested woman you want is truly mastering the game.
The best thing you can do to get started is read the DJ Bible.
The fact that you're only in high school but interested in becoming better with women will work to your advantage. By the time you're at your most valuable stage as a man (mid-30s) you will have no problem reeling in young women, but that's if you keep at it.
Good Luck.
The best thing you can do is work on the weaknesses you have that women are attracted to you. If you're not fully confident, strive to reach for that. If you're not a touchy-feely person, try to become moreso. The ideal place to be is when you've internalized all the qualities that women find attractive, and use techniques as necessary to reel them in. Getting to the point where you can pick and choose which interested woman you want is truly mastering the game.
The best thing you can do to get started is read the DJ Bible.
The fact that you're only in high school but interested in becoming better with women will work to your advantage. By the time you're at your most valuable stage as a man (mid-30s) you will have no problem reeling in young women, but that's if you keep at it.
Good Luck.
I'm no pick up artist....far from it....but I do ok.
I have gained the most from these things:
-DJ Bible
-Book Of Pook
-Rollo's blog http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
You will get a lot of advice here at the DJ Forum....much of it conflicting. Take everything you read here with a grain of salt...including my advice!
A lot of guys here will talk like they know everything about picking up women but I have a feeling all they are doing is regurgitating the stuff they read online and spending most of their time alone at their computers.
You're starting young...I think you'll be fine. I wish I had started on this stuff at your age.
I have gained the most from these things:
-DJ Bible
-Book Of Pook
-Rollo's blog http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
You will get a lot of advice here at the DJ Forum....much of it conflicting. Take everything you read here with a grain of salt...including my advice!
A lot of guys here will talk like they know everything about picking up women but I have a feeling all they are doing is regurgitating the stuff they read online and spending most of their time alone at their computers.
You're starting young...I think you'll be fine. I wish I had started on this stuff at your age.
IMO some of you guys are to young to get crazy with the pickup stuff.jsmith5 said:
do you really know you are bad with girls/women yet? because of my ego it took me till my thirty s before I read this forum the DJ bible or any E books.
don't get seduced by this community or try to prove to anyone you are some great "pickup artist" just have fun with your friends family and girls first.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I highly recommend improving yourself first dude. Either Look up coach Corey Wayne on YouTube, and maybe spend time with his book, or study this forum like everyone has said. Corey is one of the true Don Juans in my opinion. I started around your age at junior year too, its not impossible and I'm glad I did it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No guys do not use pickup to meet girls and get laid
Guys develop their social skills, conversation, body language, social awareness, inner confidence, social calibration, social circle, personal development and these are the kind of things which get you laid
Guys develop their social skills, conversation, body language, social awareness, inner confidence, social calibration, social circle, personal development and these are the kind of things which get you laid