"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do not let a woman's beauty have power over you!

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While looking at photos of a hot girl on Facebook, I saw these type of comments (some were by some dudes...obviously AFCs hoping to get close):

so pretty!!
Omg your soo pretty!!
Wow, somebodys a stunner
ur so pretty!! haha i miss u so much!! :)
you looks so pretty hayley!! hope you are doing good!!

Pretty girls hear so many compliments from friends, family, and strangers...no wonder they flake and have overinflated egos.

This has probably been said a dozen times by real men who understand women but I'm going to say it again. When dealing with beautiful women, it's very important you don't compliment them on their looks AT ALL. Maybe when you get married, you can throw a few compliments here and there but that's it.

The most important thing when approaching a very attractive girl is confident body language, loud authoritative voice, a slight humbleness about yourself (put a smile on your face), and talk to her like she's an ugly chick. This means talk about her intellect, her accomplishments, goals, favorite things to do, etc. Don't mention her beauty at all. If she gives you the least little bit of ****, have the confidence to walk away. Show her that you're ONE person that don't give a **** about her beauty. She will be attracted to this. Even if you walk away, there's a high chance she'll find you later in that night or some way to contact you again.

Men are judged upon their accomplishments and their lifestyles. Women think they're hot **** because they were born with beauty so everything should go their way and they should have anything they want. They don't respect men that align with their thinking. How is being pretty an accomplishment? She came out of a vagina slimy and crying like everyone else. She's a ***** because family and friends and guys that want to **** her made her a *****. You have to de-***** her by telling yourself in your mind "*****, your beauty don't mean ****. you're not better than me. im a ****ing man and without that beauty you're nothing. you better be happy im talking to you now and recognize im a real man who don't give a **** about what all your friends, family, chodes have been telling you all your life. you have to bring more to the table than just your looks."

Analyze this post guys and apply it to your actions with hot women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would love to hear this out loud.

I can see Charlie Murphy saying this.

All the bleeps, funny as ****.
 

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I disagree with the "always" and "never."

I think there is a time and place for everything, the key isn't to never compliment them, although certainly it should be very rare, it should be to do it in such a way that makes them beam and want to work for more. If they never get it, they'll be less interested.

What I mean by that is hard to explain, I NEVER simply say "you're beautiful" or something like that. I DO make little inside jokes and games about it. For example, for awhile I started telling her she was "exceptionally irritating today" when she would dress up or look particularly more stunning, so she figured it out and loved it.

I agree that in serious conversation talk about everything about her other than her looks, but in play, I'll do the opposite. I'll tell her how good it is that she looks amazing, because her personality will get her nowhere, etc. A girl can't resist the vanity of a compliment toward her looks, even at the expense of everything else about her and will play along and enjoy it, but you're not pandering to her at all, you're INSULTING HER, and she's ENJOYING IT.

I guess mileage will vary, but this works very well for me, at least with the kind of girl I enjoy being with. The ones who will banter back and forth with me.
 
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