"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Do not help a girl with her problems": What if this was an LTR?

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Hi!
This left me perplexed.
Imagine your wife or long-term girlfriend comes to you in tears, and you do what it told in the post.

How would you consider a right approach to take in such a scenario, ensuring you don't appear needy while still doing the right thing?
This situation can arise with anyone, whether it's a stranger, friend, or family member. How would you handle it for each scenario?


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How could you consider this in an LTR?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Do not help a girl with her problems": What if this was an LTR?"

Walk into an LTR fully aware that your chances of being conscripted to do this


And worse, only for real, are quite strong. All who ain't willing to get down and dirty are well-advised to refrain from playing the game of Life at all, and stick to Netflix And Chilling instead
 
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