frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
read the DJ BIBLE..
enroll in bootcamps until your inner game is amazing.
good luck
enroll in bootcamps until your inner game is amazing.
good luck
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DO NOT ever spend MONEY on seduction
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
brucevangeorge
Banned
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Hell after all you're not a real man. You need our seduction techniques. Developed by the latest men in the field who get all the pu$$y, and packaged for you all for a small quarterly compounded payment of $29.47 every third week for 13 weeks!
That's right! Now you too can learn from the "pros"! Just send us your money and we'll send you a way of life. If you read our techniques and memorize them you can become the Ultimate Chick Magnet (c). No practice, no fuss, hell you don't even have to do anything! All you have to do is order and we'll take your burdens away and give you the chick of your dreams in the palm of your hand.
And don't forget to buy our aftershave snake oil for maximum results!
And remeber only $33.43 compounded semi-weekly for 17 weeks!
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
No, but seriously. Don't spend money on seduction. It's pointless. You can get all the information they tell you on free websites such as this one.Macgyver said:
Let me guess, "Do not ever take TheDerekEffect1's posts seriously". Right?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Spend money on a girl because you want to, but never because you feel obligated to.
Call it AFC if you want, but I enjoy buying girls drinks or paying for a meal or getting tickets to a show or whatever. I don't think that it makes then think any less of me or think that i'm some chump. Me being willing to part with some cash simply shows appreciation for their time. It doesn't matter if they want to get laid just as much as I do, showing a person that you are appreciative of their consideration and efforts is just behaving like a real man. I don't use money to buy attention, I'll only buy a girl a drink if she has shown me considerable interest in a situation where it would have been just as easy for her to be flaky or unattentive. It shows that they have value in my eyes. If a girl asks me in the first minute of talking to her to buy her a drink then it's pretty much lights out for her, but if I offer her a drink 20 minutes into a real conversation, what's wrong with that? Is $10 really so sacred to you that you can't handle to part with it? Are you cutting your finances so close that $10 is going to make or break your week?
Not too long ago, someone likened buying a girl dinner to buying dinner for a friend or business contact. They asked would you do that? Hell yeah, I would. I buy friend's food all the time, because I know they'll get me back for it. Every single business contact I meet, I buy them a meal or drinks, because it makes a good impression. I would feel like a complete tool if I lost out on a deal that would have made me $10,000 just because I was stingy but my competitor bought them a $7 cheeseburger. It's not exactly the same thing in the art of sexual seduction, but the end result doesn't change. When people percieve that you see them as valuable, then that are more likely to be receptive to you. Spending money isn't the only way to show them that, but it is one of the ways, and it doesn't hurt you that much to use it as such.
There are plenty of gold-digging vvhores out there who I wouldn't buy a piece of Bazooka for, but that doesn't mean that you should never treat a girl to something just on some obscure principle. Use your judgement. If she's just trying to get something out of you, then by all means lock your wallet down like Sing Sing, but don't be afraid to open it occasionally either, for someone who deserves it.
Call it AFC if you want, but I enjoy buying girls drinks or paying for a meal or getting tickets to a show or whatever. I don't think that it makes then think any less of me or think that i'm some chump. Me being willing to part with some cash simply shows appreciation for their time. It doesn't matter if they want to get laid just as much as I do, showing a person that you are appreciative of their consideration and efforts is just behaving like a real man. I don't use money to buy attention, I'll only buy a girl a drink if she has shown me considerable interest in a situation where it would have been just as easy for her to be flaky or unattentive. It shows that they have value in my eyes. If a girl asks me in the first minute of talking to her to buy her a drink then it's pretty much lights out for her, but if I offer her a drink 20 minutes into a real conversation, what's wrong with that? Is $10 really so sacred to you that you can't handle to part with it? Are you cutting your finances so close that $10 is going to make or break your week?
Not too long ago, someone likened buying a girl dinner to buying dinner for a friend or business contact. They asked would you do that? Hell yeah, I would. I buy friend's food all the time, because I know they'll get me back for it. Every single business contact I meet, I buy them a meal or drinks, because it makes a good impression. I would feel like a complete tool if I lost out on a deal that would have made me $10,000 just because I was stingy but my competitor bought them a $7 cheeseburger. It's not exactly the same thing in the art of sexual seduction, but the end result doesn't change. When people percieve that you see them as valuable, then that are more likely to be receptive to you. Spending money isn't the only way to show them that, but it is one of the ways, and it doesn't hurt you that much to use it as such.
There are plenty of gold-digging vvhores out there who I wouldn't buy a piece of Bazooka for, but that doesn't mean that you should never treat a girl to something just on some obscure principle. Use your judgement. If she's just trying to get something out of you, then by all means lock your wallet down like Sing Sing, but don't be afraid to open it occasionally either, for someone who deserves it.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
lol, sh*t. Now I'm confused. Is frivolousz21 talking about spending money on women or spending money on seduction material like books? (I was speaking about spending money on seduction material... For reference).S1NN3R said:
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
im talking about advice.
and you really dont have to spend money either....
attitude, rappor, and confidence pretty much do it all for you.
and you really dont have to spend money either....
attitude, rappor, and confidence pretty much do it all for you.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Oh, okay. Then I agree. Either way I would have agreed, but still... Nice to know which one I'm agreeing to. Heh. Thanks for clearing that up, man.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
While I agree that no amount of Hamilton-dropping will make up for any of those things that you mentioned, childishly refusing to spend anything on her can go a long way towards breaking down and good effects brought on by other good qualities. And it's not just gold-diggers that get upset when you won't buy them things. Regular girls will still see cheap as cheap. Money is something of value, just like time or attention or advice, and when you unbendingly withhold it, it can cause negative feelings, right or not. She might start to think that $10 is worth more to you than she is, and whether it is or not, that's not a good impression to make. In a perfect world, it wouldn't matter one bit, but it does, some times more than others, but it's never completely gone.frivolousz21 said:
I still stand by this, spend on her because you want to, but never because you feel you have to. And if she knows that's why, it'll have an even bigger impact.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Maybe I'm just out of touch, who's Sara P? Someone I should know?
And FWIW, UNLV is the university here.
You can send that cheeseburger to PO Box 07734, Las Vegas, NV, 89138.
And FWIW, UNLV is the university here.
You can send that cheeseburger to PO Box 07734, Las Vegas, NV, 89138.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Hook it up, y0!!1!