"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im sure thats been posted on this site before.

Its fvcked up...but I think people were saying he's some kind of PUA!?...weird
 
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man, what a BIG TIME AFC!
 
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OH! MY! GOD!

What a creepy, creepy freak!
 
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I feel like he posts on this site. Like you can tell how he knows what kind of techniques to use, but he has no idea how to use them and he goes painfully out of his way to try and show that he has value and how he tries feebly to push/pull.

Eeek. Sucks for the guy man. One on hand I feel like this is the most creepiest thing ever (as I'm posting this I haven't heard the 2nd message yet), but at the same time I feel bad for him because he's trying so hard to employ the techniques he's learned from PUAs and just failing so hard.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Haha thats a classic. Telling her not to call him if she has any mental issues. :crazy:


Brighty said:
I feel like he posts on this site. Like you can tell how he knows what kind of techniques to use, but he has no idea how to use them and he goes painfully out of his way to try and show that he has value and how he tries feebly to push/pull.

Eeek. Sucks for the guy man. One on hand I feel like this is the most creepiest thing ever (as I'm posting this I haven't heard the 2nd message yet), but at the same time I feel bad for him because he's trying so hard to employ the techniques he's learned from PUAs and just failing so hard.
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Yeah I got that impression too. He's all over the place there. Being nice to her and insulting her at the same time as well as boasting about what a great catch he is while acting extremely desperate for a date while trying to hide it. He just doesn't sound a bit genuine because he's trying too hard to influence the girl with techniques instead of just being normal.


Its also a good example of why girls think some guys are creepy. If they don't seem genuine and talk like he did then their creep radar will go off.
 
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