Do NOT argue with a woman.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

sensefull

Don Juan

Sep 12, 2005

Originally posted by Bible_Belt
If you are in a ltr, every time one of you calls the other one a name or says something in anger designed to hurt as much as possible, the ltr will carry the burden of that fight forever. Couples who fight a lot can't ever really make up because they are just continuing the same fight and picking up where they last left off. Apologies are cheap. It is ten times better to bite your tongue than say something you regret, because some statements can never be fully taken back.

agreed.

well actually, not just with couples but even moreso w/friends. Just sorta sticks back there ya know?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.