"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do most women know when the guy is interested?

warrior1

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Obviously guys are more direct than woman but are there some women that just don't know that the guy is interested and he is showing the typical signals? I heard most women a good majority of them say they know when a guy is into her or not pretty easily.

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Umm...im pretty sure most guys dont know when girls are interested.
 

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the "typical signals," meaning conversation, kino, and # closing?
 

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I just ripped one and it smells so damn bad... god im choking... gahhh
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Umm...im pretty sure most guys dont know when girls are interested.
true that.

But what I think most of us usually worry about on this site is if the girl is sincere or is just teasing you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I mean like the guy is showing interest signals like kino and talking and if you were say watching this whole scene unfold from somewhere, you can spot that the guy is interested in her. I'm wondering if there are times when some women are completely oblivious and still don't know the guy is interested yet he's showing signals.
 

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Rebound Material said:
true that.

But what I think most of us usually worry about on this site is if the girl is sincere or is just teasing you.
girls worry about that too, whether or not a guy is sincere. But I think girls have more to lose if they are wrong about a guy.
 

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Category A: Most girls know when Most AFC guys are interested, thats the answer for that question.

Category B: Most girls DONT KNOW when Most PUA/DJ's are interested, thats the answer for that question.

If you fall under category A than you are an AFC, if you falling under this category and are thinking to yourself "bollocks" well, my friend, you may know or think you know a "few things" but clearly you dont know how to be mysterious.

If you fall under category B than you are a DJ, if you are falling under this category than you should be hearing things from girls like "Do you like me?" "What do you think of me?" "You confuse me. " "I dont understand you, what do you want." -- Are you getting my drift, PUA/DJ.
 

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Hot girls, like 7s and up just know by default that guys are interested. Hell, men are far more turned on by looks than women are, yet I know that most women are attracted to me (in terms of physical appearance - this is different to actual, proper sexual attraction) on some level when I go out....so a HB must be extremely concious of this.

I don't think we give women enough credit on this site either...
Guys, you know when you go up to a woman with your nicely-planned out opener, followed by a DHV story or whatever?...well as soon as you stay longer than the situation required, in this case, begin your DHV story, she knows your gaming her. I think a woman that says she doesn't is lying or very, very naieve, but probably lying.

Thats why I think being direct is best...cos she's gonna know anyway, but at least that way you don't communicate that you're trying to hide what your intentions are.
 

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