"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do men need to change and be willing to take on responsibility of starting family at young age?

MatureDJ

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I was doing some surfing about an earlier thread I had started about a harridan lamenting that her frozen eggs all failed, and I found this:

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/14/u...en-and-putting-daughters-eggs-in-freezer.html

And this comment especially raised my ire:
Men need to change also and be willing to take on the responsibility of starting a family at a younger age than middle age.
Let me guess - the men that this chick is referring to is the combo Chad Thundercock who also makes a great income; the other men are not even considered "men". :mad:

my opinion: Karma! :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win

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I believe its exactly as you say, anytime they ask something from "men" in terms of commitment they are always talking about top tier men, simply disregarding average joes from being men too.

When women complain about lack of men to start a family, they are actually complaining about lack of good looking wealthy high status men, they surely dont even notice the existance of the mc donald cashier or the bank teller.

Their radar not only doesnt register those men as sexual being but doesnt even register them as proper men, more like work drones or utilieties.

Sooner or later once they realize their real SMV (based on potential relationships overall and not just potential pump and dumps from chads), they accept to marry an average joe...but far from a decent deal for him, she will make him pay forever for his average quality and for the fact of being the living demostration of her failure to get a top tier.
 

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Personally...I think that "gotta get married, have kids, buy a house, buy a car..." It's just conformity dude. Bull**** that women get pounded into their heads from childhood. Just because society decided you need to get all that **** doesn't mean you need to agree. Just do what you want in it's best version...**** what everyone thinks right?
 

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If more men had kids when they weren’t ready we would have more overpopulation, more poverty, and more kids being raised in one parent households. America is already going down the tubes because of children who are born into really crappy situations.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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