"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do Men Have a Period?

bigneil

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Is it just me, or is it impossible for a man to have 15 consecutive "hot" days with women? While men don't literally purge blood from our bodies the way women do once a month (we hope), it seems to me that men have a cycle that is more subtle but one which periodically covers us with blood in a different way: namely from our heart due to overconfidence.

In other words, if we graphed out our success rate with women, day by day, would it make a sinusoidal wave?

Looking back to whatever year you had the most success in your life, regardless of age, did you ever have 30 or more straight "hot" days?

To be honest, I've learned that when you have a HUGE night, to simply stay in the next night, or you'll only be let down. Especially when it comes to first-date hook ups. Seeing them the next day spoils the fantasy.

What are your thoughts on the streak factor?

"Riding high in April, shot down in May"
-Frank Sinatra
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i don't know man...i do feel my brain chemistry and moods follow a cycle, but its more like a weekly cycle and probably related to my work schedule more than anything.
 
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