Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I certainly hope so. And I'm not even ugly. But it's my only hope.At some point, do women become more attracted to the guy with more money as opposed to just looks because they are looking to settle down or are approaching the wall or have already gone past the wall?
It's not like there's millionaires walking around everywhere.She'll go with another millionnaire who is hotter , if you dont take care of her needs
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
A millionaire can get laid more than Chad Thundercock. As I'm proving right now on Seeking Arrangement versus when I pretended to be Chad on Tinder.for sex, never. For relationships, yes.
If you à millionnaire, you likely hang around millionnaire.It's not like there's millionaires walking around everywhere.
Millionaire guys are pretty rare.
Even rarer than a girl with 10/10 looks.
There is a gray area of what is considered prostitution.Prostitution doesnt count lmao
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If it were that simple, wouldn't they just **** everyone then?Because she likes sex? Wtf
A HOME income level of $320k is the 1%. Millionaires is about .1% or one in a thousand.It's not like there's millionaires walking around everywhere.
Millionaire guys are pretty rare.
Even rarer than a girl with 10/10 looks.
My thoughts exactly.Because she likes sex? Wtf
Exactly. It's very rare.A HOME income level of $320k is the 1%. Millionaires is about .1% or one in a thousand.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Women have different priorities at different stages in their lives. What mattered at 21 and 27 doesn't matter at 33 and 34. Everything changes depending on their age, aim and goals.At some point, do women become more attracted to the guy with more money as opposed to just looks because they are looking to settle down or are approaching the wall or have already gone past the wall?
Some entire small to medium towns may not have even one millionaire. Hell many won't even have household income levels of $320k or 1% range...Exactly. It's very rare.
How do you know? You don't know what I look like.you're not attractive enough
Well I had a girlfriend from February until two weeks ago that thought I was handsome and would **** me for free. Her friends thought I was, too.Then why havent any of them slept with you? its tautological.
You can be a handsome cad... If you are in the wrong circles or aren't validated by females, most of them don't want to be the first to get d1cked down by you. Those womens are notoriously some group think creatures.How do you know? You don't know what I look like.
I usually get rated a 7/10.
And I've had hot girls tell me they thought I was attractive.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.