IShotTheSheriff
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Hi everyone.
After over a year dealing with Pichup stuff I realy wonder.
There are some good advices out there - the lessons of pook for instance which revolve around the nature of a man an a woman and habites of a man which do not fit his manhood and therefore make him unhappy and in consequence unable to get the right woman for him.
But I guess 90% of the PU theory out there is bull****?
Why? Because it preaches water but drinks wine - as on of our sayings goes.
90% of the PU theory and book teach you about the alpha male. How he is not interested in pleasing anyone especialy not woman since he is not needy. Also he is strong and authentic because he makes no secret of his intentions and is a honest do god guy in this matter. Then they wrap it up in some biological and historical background to give it a scientific touch.
But after this introduction what they teach you is a different thing. The tell you to fake thos behaviours a aplha would show. They tell you all sorts of technics to make woman laugh, to make things interresting, to entertain them. Also they rationalize all kinds of bad behaviour from woman you would never accept from anyone else and tell you if you cant deal with it its your fault. And if its ypur fault you have to work harder to become more attractive to woman.
In Essence they tell you to do all kinds of things which they called BETA at the beginning. They tell you to make woman the center of your universe, to work hard to be attractive to them, to entertain them. They say its the "***** diagnose mode" to rationalize all kinds of disrespectfull behaviour. And a few pages later they offer all kinds of weired explanations for the same disrespectfull behaviour along with some canned material to overcome this.
Also they tell you to not glorify woman and to see them as something godlike. But if your read careufully through tips and hints given from the community you will realize, that in 99.9% of all cases they will tell you that the woman did nothing wrong. She is always right, she did pretty clever there and all of this was your fault because you acted "unworthy".
Please dont concider this an offence against this board.
Since I found the works of Pook and others here it probably helped me more than any other source.
Its just the big picture that I got from dealing with PU for over a year.
Hi everyone.
After over a year dealing with Pichup stuff I realy wonder.
There are some good advices out there - the lessons of pook for instance which revolve around the nature of a man an a woman and habites of a man which do not fit his manhood and therefore make him unhappy and in consequence unable to get the right woman for him.
But I guess 90% of the PU theory out there is bull****?
Why? Because it preaches water but drinks wine - as on of our sayings goes.
90% of the PU theory and book teach you about the alpha male. How he is not interested in pleasing anyone especialy not woman since he is not needy. Also he is strong and authentic because he makes no secret of his intentions and is a honest do god guy in this matter. Then they wrap it up in some biological and historical background to give it a scientific touch.
But after this introduction what they teach you is a different thing. The tell you to fake thos behaviours a aplha would show. They tell you all sorts of technics to make woman laugh, to make things interresting, to entertain them. Also they rationalize all kinds of bad behaviour from woman you would never accept from anyone else and tell you if you cant deal with it its your fault. And if its ypur fault you have to work harder to become more attractive to woman.
In Essence they tell you to do all kinds of things which they called BETA at the beginning. They tell you to make woman the center of your universe, to work hard to be attractive to them, to entertain them. They say its the "***** diagnose mode" to rationalize all kinds of disrespectfull behaviour. And a few pages later they offer all kinds of weired explanations for the same disrespectfull behaviour along with some canned material to overcome this.
Also they tell you to not glorify woman and to see them as something godlike. But if your read careufully through tips and hints given from the community you will realize, that in 99.9% of all cases they will tell you that the woman did nothing wrong. She is always right, she did pretty clever there and all of this was your fault because you acted "unworthy".
Please dont concider this an offence against this board.
Since I found the works of Pook and others here it probably helped me more than any other source.
Its just the big picture that I got from dealing with PU for over a year.