Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do it Right Now!

Raptafairious

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I remember not too long ago, I used to make a big list of all the things I wanted to do, what I wanted to improve myself with, and all my goals. A lot of people do this, that's great. There was one problem though, I never gave myself the time to achieve them. I would wake up everyday, skim through my list and say to myself, "Well I can't do this until next week." or "Whatever I'll do it tomorrow." or some other lame excuse. Then when the specific date would come to do these goals, I would yet push them off again.

Then something came and I thought to myself.

Do it Right Now!

That just made my mind click. And finally things started to get done. I realized that no one was going to tell me when to achieve my goals, because there all personal. Its not someones forcing me to work out, or stop smoking, or talk to that girl over there, there's no penalty if I don't do it. That's why most people don't achieve their goal.

So I woke up a Monday morning, and I ran through some of the goals I wanted to get done. I told myself that no ones there to give me a push, no ones there to depend on to get it done, its all you. You have to do it if you want to. You want to get buff? Do it right Now! You want to talk to girls? Do it right now! S**t isn't going to get done if you keep on pushing it off. You only live once, because one day it might all just end too early, and you'll look back and say why the hell didn't I do that.

Stop giving yourself excuses, you tell yourself your going to do something, so god damn do it!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonafide

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I totally needed that, if I see a girl I like 2morrow and wanna sk her out im s o gonna do it :trouble:
 
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