I've noticed lately that there seems to be a lot of controversy on this topic. Some people feel that going from AFC to a 'player' mind set merely turns out jerks, not Don Juans. Other people feel being a Don Juan is all about sleeping with countless numbers of women. Before you say you have an opinion on the subject however, take a minute to read this post over and think about it.
Some people come here because they want to better their life, gain confidence, and settle down with that one perfect girl in a LTR. They've studied the bible, became a 'Don Juan' in the sense of the term through hard work and practise, and it works for them.
Others come here to absorb the knowledge they need to get one thing only. Sex. Lots of sex. And you know what? There's not one problem with that. It's the basic instinct of males to want to spread your seed with as many women as possible, so they choose to do that. They learn how to pick up a woman, and how to get her in bed. How do they do it? Through hard work and practise, like the above group of board members.
Myself, I've been through both sides. When I first started out a year and a half ago, I was thrilled with the amount of knowledge I had picked up, and went on a total macking spree, getting with girl after girl. And sure enough, after that, I DID end up bored of it. So I began working on one gorgeous girl, and I've now been with her for the past seven months. But you know what else? Now I'm bored of THIS, and I want to ***** myself again. Nothing wrong with that.
The way I look at it, the number one thing for me is living my life, and enjoying it. Basic principle of a Don Juan right? But for me, living my life is experiencing many different things and feelings. From being with a girl for a while and truly caring about her, to the slight smirk I get on my face knowing if I want a girl to get with her, I can do it.
Whatever group you choose to let your path go down, just remember one thing. Do it for what YOU want to do. Some people look at me as a jerk for some of the things I've done. The same people were amazed when I managed to keep a lengthy LTR going. The point is, live your life, and make sure that you have a damn good time in high school to look back on. Experience it all.
Some people come here because they want to better their life, gain confidence, and settle down with that one perfect girl in a LTR. They've studied the bible, became a 'Don Juan' in the sense of the term through hard work and practise, and it works for them.
Others come here to absorb the knowledge they need to get one thing only. Sex. Lots of sex. And you know what? There's not one problem with that. It's the basic instinct of males to want to spread your seed with as many women as possible, so they choose to do that. They learn how to pick up a woman, and how to get her in bed. How do they do it? Through hard work and practise, like the above group of board members.
Myself, I've been through both sides. When I first started out a year and a half ago, I was thrilled with the amount of knowledge I had picked up, and went on a total macking spree, getting with girl after girl. And sure enough, after that, I DID end up bored of it. So I began working on one gorgeous girl, and I've now been with her for the past seven months. But you know what else? Now I'm bored of THIS, and I want to ***** myself again. Nothing wrong with that.
The way I look at it, the number one thing for me is living my life, and enjoying it. Basic principle of a Don Juan right? But for me, living my life is experiencing many different things and feelings. From being with a girl for a while and truly caring about her, to the slight smirk I get on my face knowing if I want a girl to get with her, I can do it.
Whatever group you choose to let your path go down, just remember one thing. Do it for what YOU want to do. Some people look at me as a jerk for some of the things I've done. The same people were amazed when I managed to keep a lengthy LTR going. The point is, live your life, and make sure that you have a damn good time in high school to look back on. Experience it all.
, but then again I will probably get bored of it, the reason I do that is because I don't want to be commited right now and want to have fun. And thats what I'm doing, having fun.