“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do I try again or do I next her?

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So there is this girl at my work. She is twenty, im nineteen. We've both been workin there for about three months, and flirt and whatever, talk and the usual stuff. Nothin too friendly though. I woulda tried somethin with her but she was already married!!

Well, i was at a work party last week, and she was there. Earlier in the day i heard that she was talkin about me and askin if people thought i would like her. She never goes cause she is married, but i heard they broke up a while back. she later told me at the party she found him cheatin. So i was feelin up on her, talkin and lettin her know i was interested. She was askin me all these questions like how come i dont got a girlfriend and cuddling and stuff. By the time the party was over, she gave me her number. Here is where it gets kinda stupid.

I call her phone a couple days later. Someone picks it up, and is silent for about a sec, and i say Hello. Some girl, who sounds like her, starts talkin spanish...sayin "bueno?" "bueno?" and "que hablas" or somethin...then hung up. I thought she was playin, so i called back. Same thing..."bueno?" and then hung up.

Well, i dont like when girls test or play games, and im pretty sure it was her. I woulda nexted her, but she is pretty hot, and worth a little fight. Question is, does it sound like i should give it another shot? or Next her. I haven't seen her at work cause we have different schedules, and havent called her since. So what you guys think..i still got a shot, or scratch her off the list?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NT do you understand Spanish?
 

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No, i understand a bit. Enough to know it was somethin like, Hello, who is speaking? Quien habla mean who do you want to talk to i think. I know it was her number thought cause she asked for mine at the party, then dialed it right there to have me save her number. Thats why I think she was f*ckin with me.
 

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She's married and who knows if the story about her not being with her husband anymore is true. She also could have been with another guy when she answered the phone which caused her to play dumb.

WHO KNOWS?

Tip: When fish bits the bait, reel it in and through another line out to catch more. (Think about it)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my guess is that she was with either her husband or another guy.

probably with her husband and trying to work things out when you happened to call.

I'd leave it at that, until you maybe get a chance to see her again in person - then play it from there.

no sense in calling her again.
 

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Alright. I saw that girl again at work today. She says whats up to me and I say hi, actin like normal. Well, while we were walkin i just started bullsh*ting bout work and stuff, and as we are about to go our separate ways, she says
"So how come you haven't called me?"

so i kinda look at her with a weird smirk and before i even say anything she goes "Its okay though" and gives me a little rub on the back and says bye.

So does this girl sound like she is still playin games? I really would like to f*ck her...I just dont want to be dealin with that sh*t if i tried callin her again.

man..like a freakin chess match or somethin
 
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